Deadly_Ripped
Master Don Juan
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I apologize if what I say overlaps some of the other posts on body language.
I've read a few articles on the forum about this, had my own personal experiences with women, and read a few things that aren't on the site so I hope I can add something new...
It's all about the feet....
I'll use personal examples as an explanation.
Co- Woker B stands close to me (within arms length), with her feet pretty much together, and her arms at her sides.
This girl is about as open as it gets body language-wise.
Her feet together's a neutral sign.
Her arms at her sides is a good sign.
Her closeness with the following makes a very strong sign that she's physically attracted. She also responds well to kino.
Co-worker J keeps her feet in line with her body, usually a little apart. When we talk, we're usually a comfortable distance apart, a tiny bit outside arms length. She stands square to me, and her arms are never crossed, sometimes at her side.
Feet together is a neutral sign.
Square is a positive sign.
The distance is a neutral sign.
The bodyweight is an example of how you shouldn't use only bodylanguage to determine how someone feels about you. She's got a problem with one of her hip joints from running cross country, so she leans to one side to take the weight off that joint. In other words, DON'T use your observations of her body language as a definitive answer to your question, "Is she interested?"
When I combine all of her verbal cues and reactions i.e. facial expressions etc I figured out that she's an aspiring debbie juan, but I've caught on to her game. I just treat her like any other person on earth and enjoy as she uses kino and neg-hits to try to get me to fall all over her like every other AFC on earth.
***** A had me on her line without reeling me in for three years.
(Note: this is PRE sosuave.com)
Her words kept me biting, but her body language, had I paid attention, would've told me the truth long ago. She stood, almost every time we talked, conciously close, with arms crossed, and one leg in front of the other.
She stood close, so close that I noticed. I took this to be a positive sign until I read about foot position.
Her feet created her own personal zone so she could stand close while we talked but distance herself as much as she wanted. Negative sign.
The arms were almost always crossed, keeping me at distance yet again.
This girl was almost a pro at using little tricks like these to **** with people. I'm sure she meant to stand close, but I doubt she was intentionally crossing her arms or putting one leg out. Once I realized these things, it took me about one second to get pissed off enough to forget that headcase. All thanks to this site.
I'd give co worker A an overall positive bodylanguage, co-worker J an overall neutral (which in the DJ's case is negative), and in ***** A's case, a drop the conversation where it is, walk away, and dont' waste your time.
I've read a few articles on the forum about this, had my own personal experiences with women, and read a few things that aren't on the site so I hope I can add something new...
It's all about the feet....
I'll use personal examples as an explanation.
Co- Woker B stands close to me (within arms length), with her feet pretty much together, and her arms at her sides.
This girl is about as open as it gets body language-wise.
Her feet together's a neutral sign.
Her arms at her sides is a good sign.
Her closeness with the following makes a very strong sign that she's physically attracted. She also responds well to kino.
Co-worker J keeps her feet in line with her body, usually a little apart. When we talk, we're usually a comfortable distance apart, a tiny bit outside arms length. She stands square to me, and her arms are never crossed, sometimes at her side.
Feet together is a neutral sign.
Square is a positive sign.
The distance is a neutral sign.
The bodyweight is an example of how you shouldn't use only bodylanguage to determine how someone feels about you. She's got a problem with one of her hip joints from running cross country, so she leans to one side to take the weight off that joint. In other words, DON'T use your observations of her body language as a definitive answer to your question, "Is she interested?"
When I combine all of her verbal cues and reactions i.e. facial expressions etc I figured out that she's an aspiring debbie juan, but I've caught on to her game. I just treat her like any other person on earth and enjoy as she uses kino and neg-hits to try to get me to fall all over her like every other AFC on earth.
***** A had me on her line without reeling me in for three years.
(Note: this is PRE sosuave.com)
Her words kept me biting, but her body language, had I paid attention, would've told me the truth long ago. She stood, almost every time we talked, conciously close, with arms crossed, and one leg in front of the other.
She stood close, so close that I noticed. I took this to be a positive sign until I read about foot position.
Her feet created her own personal zone so she could stand close while we talked but distance herself as much as she wanted. Negative sign.
The arms were almost always crossed, keeping me at distance yet again.
This girl was almost a pro at using little tricks like these to **** with people. I'm sure she meant to stand close, but I doubt she was intentionally crossing her arms or putting one leg out. Once I realized these things, it took me about one second to get pissed off enough to forget that headcase. All thanks to this site.
I'd give co worker A an overall positive bodylanguage, co-worker J an overall neutral (which in the DJ's case is negative), and in ***** A's case, a drop the conversation where it is, walk away, and dont' waste your time.