"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what have you learned from your fav reality shows

elite7

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I f any of you have watched mtv's fresh meat or the gaunlet and have read the any robert greene book you will notice some similarities same with big brother and donald trumps show.what have your learned from watching your fav shows?:wave:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I prefer to pay attention to my OWN reality.

You know when you watch that crap, half of the things they do stem from the fact that they ARE on-camera, right?

You think those guido-punks on Jersey Shore would get laid all the time if they didn't have a guy in an MTV-cap following them around with a TV camera? :p
 

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^what you mean???

I thought you can learn stuff by watching tv. I mean sure, programming is for idiots with IQ 70 and bellow, but if you watch two programs that's 70 + 70, so you become smart.
 

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My favorite television reality show—a decade ago—was Blind Date. Even though the dates were exaggerated by the presence of a camera, and date locations were decided by the producers, there was one solid thing which I did learn. You could predict (with 99% accuracy) how the date would end by looking at the body language reactions in the first three seconds of the date. If a girl is attracted to you, almost nothing can do you wrong. If a girl isn't, nothing can save you. The only time the predictions were wrong was if the date turned out to be a complete blowout because the guy had horrible or non-existent game.
 

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The day I think I "learned" something from Reality TV is the day I stop myself from watching it. I watch very little of it, but look at it as nothing more than thoughtless comedy (Jersey Shore). There is nothing that anybody on those shows can teach me that will better any aspect of my life.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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