"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What HAVE you done last week to get poon?

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TonyBaloney

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Seems to me like an awful lot of chitter chatter on here, and no action!

What percentage of last week did you make an effort to go out and get laid?

What amount of time on SS and the net?

Any approaches last week?

BE HONEST!!!!

What ae you gonna do about it next week?????
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HalfPUAHalfAFC

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What is this, Missouri?

Okay, I'll play along....

Last Sunday: Date with plate #1 (met through friend). Stayed at her place. Bang.

Monday: Happy hour. No leads. Text girl I met a week ago about a date on Saturday. She agrees.

Tuesday: Worked late, at bar for game. Opened HB7.5. Went for number after game...no dice.

Wednesday: Hit second bar after happy hour at first. See HB8 sitting alone at bar. Ask to join me at table. She does. We play trivia. Get number, but she has to leave. Girl for Saturday date texts with second excuse why she can't make it again (dinner for brother who his moving away). Strike two, delete number.

Thursday: First date with plate #2. Bounce to 4 different bars around downtown. Me: "Let's go to my place and watch a movie." Her: "Sure." Bang.

Friday. Date with plate #1. Dinner at my place, out to see music and then back to the house. Bang.

Saturday morning: Send out a few stupid OKC troll messages, get 3 numbers.

Saturday evening: Watch game with buddy and plate #1. She leaves afterward. Go out with buddy to see band at local club; plate #3 texts to see if I want a ride with her and her friends, but I can't, since I'm already going with buddy. Get to club, "Sold out". Plate #3 decides to stay at home. Go to bar next door to see if there's any talent. Not really. Head home, call it a night.

Today: Setting up dates for next week.

Good enough for you?
 
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My life doesn't revolve around women, but when I do deal with them, they usually go into my journal... You're welcome to check it out :)
 
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I opened my phone, clicked on contacts, called a couple of numbers, then got laid. What did you do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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fook all last week. week before i hit it up heaps.

I have a LONG way to go before i will be fooking girls. i'm pretty f ed up. ( in my head. i mean )

school starts tomorrow so i will go into beast mode. i realised today i have too much free time and because i don't know what to do, i waste it.
 
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That's a good point you raise. And it's funny how many of the responses are all defensive sounding.

Last week I hung out with 1 girl who is a repeat, and hung out with 3 women who I've been on one date previously and went on the second. I don't count the first date too much, as the second and third is where the real fun begins.

This week I'm seeing a few of them again. I've also talked to and hung out with a cute neighbor (she lives in the same building) so we'll see where that goes. At worst she has a lot of cute friends.
 
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