"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What have i done to deserve this?

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Bumptious Women in bars...

I was at a bar/club once. Usually by about 11:00 PM all the sitting/standing spots at the bar are taken.
This one gal literally shoved me aside so she could order a drink.
I said, "It really is OK to say excuse me." Yup, that's it. I didn't call her any names, cuss or anything. Simply reminded her that just because it's a bar and just because she's a woman, she needn't forget simple manners. Heck, even tapping someone on the shoulder and pointing to the bar is more polite than shoving them aside like they're a side of beef or a piece of furniture that's in the way.
Well, she starts yipping at me, cursing at me and all, and then the bartender starts glaring at me and saying, "why are you starting in with her? She's a woman!" I had nothing to say to such stupidity, so I walked away...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bartenders are usually AFCs

They sit there and look all glassy-eyed at the sleaze-balls who frequent their bar, hoping that she'll just say something nice to them as they return to their miserable lives.

Typical American AFC sticking up for the rude woman instead of the classy guy. God our culture is warped.
 

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WestCoaster -

Although I agree in principle with what you are saying about AFC behavior/attitude of bartenders, I have to say in fairness that the bartenders working the night spots in my area are a pretty popular bunch (in general) with the ladies. This guy wasn't one of them, btw.
 

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Originally posted by sandinista

HER: ... so you're gonna be selfish and but yourself something and screw everyone else?
ME: fukc you and your friends stupid hooo ... and walk away

Originally posted by sandinista
THEN the girl i went to the bar with threw her drink at me! I was soaked.
Should have grabbed her and mopped the floor with her.
 
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