What has 'ignoring' done for you?

[ecvegas]

Can anyone share details of a girl that lost interest in you or put you in the friendszone, but you started ignoring her and totally turned the situation around where she started coming on to you?

 

[brenbaus]

yes, infact I have been in the friend zone for a year, and tonight she tells me that she want to kiss me. Just use your DJ skills and figure out what works for that one particular chick

 

[JonJack]

What's with the sudden general interest in 'turning things around' on a girl that has lost interest?

Here's the surprising thing that most guys who think about this do not realize. If a girl has lost interest in you and you next her, you are essentially ignoring her. She may start coming back to you or she may not. Her coming back is like a bonus. Therefore, you do not even think about it.

Stories of guys having girls come back to them after he ignored her are just stories. If they comfort you, then fine. But you've got to be able to seperate these stories from your personal situation. They are not one and the same and you seriously don't need other people telling you stories about things like this because it's general knowledge that girls can react in many different ways.

 

[Jay-X]

i think that ignoring a girl is not the way to go at all. here are the possible situations:


1. YOU ARE UGLY. why should she lose her time over a ugly guy that maybe she's intrigued by, but ignores her?

2. YOU ARE AVERAGE-LOOKING. there are lots of guys, more handsome than you, that hit on her, why should she dump them for somebody uglier that ignores her?

3. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. she thinks you're just not interested and stuck-up

 

[mrRuckus]

Originally posted by Jay-X


2. YOU ARE AVERAGE-LOOKING. there are lots of guys, more handsome than you, that hit on her, why should she dump them for somebody uglier that ignores her?

Young Jedi... girls are stupid. That's why.

 

[griffon65]

I dunno, never been in the friendzone witha girl. What I can tell you is that if a girl is already attracted to you, ignoring increases the attraction if done in moderation.

 

[Cocky-Blond-Guy]

I'm fairly certain that with the proper mix of flirting + ignoring you can get just about any chick out there...

In fact, you can even carry that "ignoring" feature right into any relationship that you start.

I used to go into this chick's work like 2 times a week on business, and we would flirt it up all the time, and then some days I just wouldn't give her the time of day while I was there.

It would be great - she would be dying to talk/help me, but I would just stare ahead and go with someone else...

Eventually I asked her out - and she replied that she was really sorry, that she had a boyfriend...I just lauged at her and said sure...likely story.

Turns out that was her last day, and that she was crushed thinking that I would just take a pass. Apparently though, she knew someone at my work, and had this other chick give me her number. Well I never called her, and 2 weeks after I first asked her out she came into my work and playfully *****ed at me for not calling her.

So we setup a date - went out - hooked up...turns out that she broke up with her man like right after I asked her out.

I asked her what she thought about me whenever she saw me at her work, and she said she thought I was a player! Haha...well...I've since convinced her that's not the case. But apparently she doesn't buy it...I just talked to some people at my work and they said she doesn't believe me. Ah well...she's pretty sweet...I think I'll stick with her for a while at least.

Anyways - she said it drove her straight crazy when I wouldn't look at her or talk to her, and that she would look forward to seeing me every week - going out of her way to get me to notice her.

Well - thats my story - I ignored her, and it drove her wild. Now we're buck wild...and I swear...I'm no player. Haha...