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Here is an update, if you havent read my previous post please do. Here they are; What happened today is at bottom please offer your opinions guys.. Thanks :{

I recently started liking this girl in my Travel Law class, I THINK she may like me too but im not sure, she seems pretty much shy maybe even more than me.

I guess she pretty much knows i like her because last week i saw her and another friend walking out from building, and i was chillin with my boy, so i was just checking her out and i guess she noticed it. Then she was little farther i pointed her out to my boy, and unfortunately at the same time i was pointing at her, she turned around and saw me doing that , so i still kept looking and she turned around again couple more times, and did some funny little dance to her friend.

Some of you might say sit next to her in class but thats not really possible,no seats available and we pretty much stay in same seats throughout semester. The only time we sat next to each other was during a test like last month, she sat next to me, looked at me once, and i looked at her and then to my suprise she asked me "If studied? I responded no i fell asleep studying blah blah etc etc":..

So i dont really know what to do.. Any suggestions? It seems like she is into her own world not in a bad way but she minds her own business chills just with the 1 friend i saw her with..Helps guys any suggestion will help..

UPDATE
Well just an update.

Today my friend informed that he talked to her for me, well not literraly telling her i like her, but he told me they saw each other on the train, and he basicallly told her "i think my boy likes you, i think he gonna talk to you" I was kind of pissed at him because i didnt want any help but then i realized he just told her his opinion its not like he said my boy likes you and wants to get with you, so i cant complain.... But now i know why she was looking at me the whole week.

But anyways today i made my move, and it worked, this is how it went.

Saw her and her friend coming out, and i jumped like a tiger on them lol. Introduced myself it was funny though because i had both hands in my jacket pockets and right arm holding my notebook because it was really cold. So i took my left hand out and she came with her right hand so our handshake seemed okward. So i told her make up your mind which hand do you wanna shake She laughed.. I told her ive had my eye on her the whole semester and i wanted to get to know her. She then giggled and said you are lying, then i was like why would i lie its true. Then i was like how bout we chill Monday after class, she said what time? I said after class when we get out at 2, 2 second break and she smiled and said yea ok, or yes sure i dont remember. Then i was like Ok then i see you Monday, and then she introduced me to her friend, and asked me what was your name again. I responsed i just told you like a minute ago and you already dont remember damn. She smiled, and said im sorry ( i dont blame her for not remembering my name i dont remember my own friends name sometimes).. And thats it.

Overall i was very confident, maybe because my friends were outside with me. I dont know why, but i have much easier time hittin on girls when i have friends around me hanging out with me. Why i dont know.. I think i did good, but maybe i was too of smart ass, but i guess not since she laughed, and giggled. Opinions please what i did wrong? If anything?

Today - *MONDAY/FINAL UPDATE*

Feel kind of pissed, but on other hand do not care.. I kind of got played i think, unless something changes.. Went to class she was late she came in like 25 min later. So i waited till class ends, and she just bounces without saying a word i was like WTF we agreed Monday after class. So i didnt chase her i went to talk to my boy who im working on a project outside the class we had to confirm somethings.

So i walk out thinking she is outside waiting for me, but she wasnt so i walk to another building, where her and her friend always chill. I walk up to her and i say what happened you forgot, we supposed to chill, and you just left like that. She said im sorry i had to run to get my friend we are gonna go eat (Both of them always go eat after class). So im thinking in my head well if you cared you wanted to keep your promise you would say do you wanna come with us. So i tell her when we gonna chill then? She says I dont want to tell you a specific time, day and then not go, i will let you know when though... I know what that meant.

So guys what happened besides the obvious. Why did it happen? If you read previous post it seemed she was interested, i mean when my friend told her "i think he will talk to u soon, she giggled and didnt seem to have any objections, and she said im cute" If she wasnt interested AT ALL she would of probably told him well he can talk to me but i gotta man or some other excuse.

I was also thinking maybe she meant what she said. She didnt want to ditch her friend (they are best friends they are always together) to chill with me, and she simply will get back to me when her friend is absent or whatever. But kind of rude to agree with me for Monday at 2, and then tell me this... I know im overanalyzing things but i was %100 sure we would hang out, because i senses good vibe between us, and she had no problems to agree on things... Opinion guys please.. Thanks
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she should have told u she was going to eat with her friend right after class - u should have not chased her - if she was interested in u she would have talked to u - what she did was rude and direspectful - false hope shyt - do not talk to this chick again - keep your dignity - she wanted u to chase her - ego or just to see what you'll do.

maybe it was your breath or bad odor - or maybe she saw a booger in your nose -- who knows? the point is she disrespected you and showed very little tact and has no class and seems like a cold biatch - avoid avoid avoid

if she comes up to u and ask u out tell her that she was rude and that u are skeptical of her intentions - u can play with her romatically but no ltr - u dont want a cold heartless callous chick on your arm - she'll eventually will turn on u and leave u without telling u she has another dude.

her lack of respect is a perfect sign of who she really is - never forget that - when u do u'll get burned!!

hey, i did a post without using the word Wh@re - ooops there i go again
 
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yankees

- my last post could be entirely wrong if she is extremely shy - her shyness and avoidance traits can be taken as rude and disrespectful

disregard my advice if this is the case - extremely shy girls dont approach dudes or initiate conversation

u would have to make an extra effort when dealing with a shy girl
because it is hard to gauge her interest level right away - but it seemed as though she has interest in u - so it could b her severe shyness y she didnt invite u to eat - u r still a stranger to her.

take it slow and build up a rapport and comfort level.

maybe she heard something about your past as a dj and thinks u r a playa - shy girls dont like playas - anything bad in your past relating to women?
 

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lol i always like your replies.. well i didnt chase her i just happened to see her when i went upstairs to drop off books so i was like what the hell lets see what happens when i confront her .Some of my friends say the reason she did that was cuzz she is shy I dont know.. I dont think today had anything to do with odor or breath :D because i got alot of compliments today from girls that i looked good.. But overall im upset what happened, to tell u the truth i was 100% sure we would of have chilled today.On friday when we spoke it didnt seem she BS'ed, i mean if she didnt like me would she tell my boy im cute, she even could of made some kind of excuse on friday like i cant chill with u cuzz i gotta man or something but:confused:
 

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So what would you suggest i mean i dont want to be all on her, but if i dont approach or anything she gonna think maybe im mad, or not interested anymore.. I mean yea this girl is shy I rarely notice her talking to someone else besides her best friend, she never speaks in class so maybe i shouldt be mad im not sure what to think, or how to find out the real truth.. But maybe what she said was the real truth and she will let me know when we can chill because she didnt want to ditch her best friend... But thats just speculating:confused:
 

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Kineti no offense, i dont know where you live but here in NYC we use the word chill to get with a girl. Because if i would say "Would you like to spend time with me Monday after class" she would probably laugh.
 

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Lover,

No i dont have a bad rep in my college i dont think im known as a player so about that i dont think i should worry, although she did see me talking to another girl after class, but i mean i can not talk to other people?

You said take it slow and build rapport but its difficult without me knowing what her true intentions are, what if i try to talk to her etc but she has no interest at all it just makes me look like a jackass, but also what if she has but she is just shy
 

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Originally posted by yankees13
Kineti no offense, i dont know where you live but here in NYC we use the word chill to get with a girl. Because if i would say "Would you like to spend time with me Monday after class" she would probably laugh.
Chill is "ok" I guess, it's more the attitude and the whole after class bit that was kinda goofy.
 

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Kineti, i see your point. But overall i think she liked what i said etc giggling, laughing etc. But anyways im not saying your wrong what is your opinion, what are her intentions?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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It's not that I ment your reading her wrong or anything or did anything wrong but the finishing act/meeting setup should have been done differently. Going straight upto her and talking to her like that takes more balls than 90% of boys have (when sober) so that's really good =)) But you should have been more elegant with the whole meeting thing. You should have setup a real date or something or gotten her phonenumber, something SOLID atleast.
 

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Kineti,

I see your points, but i mean we cant be perfect, i did what i thought was right, im sure i said some things i shouldnt have but i did get to the point and my intentions. You suggested maybe asking for a date i dont think i would even do that if she accepted yes i think she is cool, but i dont really know her like that maybe she is a moron and not worth my time.. I was just trying to set up little time between our busy schedules to get to know one another, and hey if we click we go out on a date.
 

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TUESDAY

Today went to class copied notes etc, she came in 10 minutes after class started. She took few glances at me from what i saw. At end of class i just stood up and started walking out, i turned around to make sure i didnt forget to grab some of my stuff.. She was looking at me, and i looked at her i turned around and at the corner of my eyes i saw smile/smirk:confused:

Saw her again when i was leaving office i was walking with a friend my best friend said she looked kind of mad. Sometimes i feel like walking up to her and telling her what she did was disrespectful, but some of you said that she may just be very shy, so i dont want to go off on her and even if i do it just makes me look like little puppy, following her every move...

So here is another day, where sometimes i dont know what i should do, should i ignore? Should i say hi (make her more comfortable if she is that shy)..

I feel i did my part informing her that i wanted to hang out it was time for her to do her part.. Approaching her and talking to her again would i think make me look small and desperate, but on other hand sometimes you have to bite the bullet and check your ego and find out the real truth reason, whether i should do that i dont know maybe u guys know?
 

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You made your move. She disrespected.

She has to really put herself out there for you to give her any kind of a second chance.
 

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I hear you, i cant make excuses for her that she is too shy etc.. Hey i was shy and i still made my bold move by approaching her..
 

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PuertoRicanLover,

Maybe you are lingering around the board, what do you think on what happened today?
 

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You're overanalyzing the whole thing. The girl isn't interested. Move on to the next one, bro.
 
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