"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What has gotten into me? i was scare of approching now i cant stop!

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Lol i dont know what has gotten into me this past couple of weeks.
Just a few weeks ago i was scare of approching, and i mean cold approaches, now every fine lady i see, i i go up to and try to stroke a convo, or whatnot.

I guess that its cause my GF has been acting up lately gettin mad for any bs and not showing interest and not giving me the attention that i want and need.

Oh well......:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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u live in the world of "never regret the things you've done, but reget the things you didn't"

and which i'm living in rite now :)
 
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Me too.

Actually I can't wait for tommorow night. Some grinding and good times with the ladies.

Approaching is easy, once you don't give a $hit about it. ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dont worry about it..I am going threw the same thing....but no one repsonded to me..then again..Ive been getting alot of AFC posters posting to my ****..and trying to 1 up me.

either way..have fun it..you have a gf..but if she really was someone u were in love with you wouldnt do this anyways...:)

So I guess ill continue the rampage im on until..I get bored with it..or strike gold with a lucky lady! :)
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
you have a gf..but if she really was someone u were in love with you wouldnt do this anyways...:)
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:rolleyes: do what? :D what am i doing wrong, im not cheating on her....... yet:D

No but for real, something wrong with approaching and being friendly with my fellow world citizens?...
 
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not at all...unless you really have the intentions to get with one of them...I mean obviously we dont want our women going out to flirt with guys to find a replacement or a quikkiee????
 
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Welcome to confidence, bfl. Keep it up!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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