"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What has gotten into me? i was scare of approching now i cant stop!

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Lol i dont know what has gotten into me this past couple of weeks.
Just a few weeks ago i was scare of approching, and i mean cold approaches, now every fine lady i see, i i go up to and try to stroke a convo, or whatnot.

I guess that its cause my GF has been acting up lately gettin mad for any bs and not showing interest and not giving me the attention that i want and need.

Oh well......:D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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u live in the world of "never regret the things you've done, but reget the things you didn't"

and which i'm living in rite now :)
 
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Me too.

Actually I can't wait for tommorow night. Some grinding and good times with the ladies.

Approaching is easy, once you don't give a $hit about it. ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dont worry about it..I am going threw the same thing....but no one repsonded to me..then again..Ive been getting alot of AFC posters posting to my ****..and trying to 1 up me.

either way..have fun it..you have a gf..but if she really was someone u were in love with you wouldnt do this anyways...:)

So I guess ill continue the rampage im on until..I get bored with it..or strike gold with a lucky lady! :)
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
you have a gf..but if she really was someone u were in love with you wouldnt do this anyways...:)
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:rolleyes: do what? :D what am i doing wrong, im not cheating on her....... yet:D

No but for real, something wrong with approaching and being friendly with my fellow world citizens?...
 
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not at all...unless you really have the intentions to get with one of them...I mean obviously we dont want our women going out to flirt with guys to find a replacement or a quikkiee????
 
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Welcome to confidence, bfl. Keep it up!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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