Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What happens when..........

pettman

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........you and your girl stop having as much sex as you did when you first were together?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pettman

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that thats what happens? i hear from my mates similar stuff, what do you guys think?
 

WC2

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I think you better start making things interesting before she goes off and starts banging other guys (if she hasn't)
 

pettman

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haha, i doubt she is doing that!

make it interesting how?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BuckwildNYC

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Is she rejecting you from having sex or are YOU just not feeling her. You really need to give more details.........................................
 

GloriouslyInsane

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She's probably getting bored with you (in the best case,she may be fvcking around behind your back).Change it up man,stop being so predictable,try to take her in the kitchen,the bathroom,on the floor,in a park,do more foreplay,push-pull, build anticipation.
 

pettman

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well first of all the downslide started when she started working as a student nurse, having shifts, early morning, late night etc and so was tired when it came to bed time, and so wasnt in the mood, which i can understand.

but since then she just doesnt seem to want it, prehaps now thinking about it because it was boring and the same thing all the time, but i tried doing different things but she says she dont want to, perhaps i should make more of an effort?

so tease her more and make her want it and then build it up etc?
 
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