What's up yall, I'm new here. Here's the situation... I'm 22, my girlfriend is 18. We've been together for over a year. We started out as friends, with her wanting a relationship, however I did not want to be with her because of her age. As time went on, feelings changed and we became a couple. We were in love and everything was great. Her family damn near adopted me, and we have too many memorable moments together. We never had any problems or serious issues other than the occasional argument. She is the best girlfriend I have ever had, and the love and connection we shared was phenomenal.
She always tells me that I am the man of her prayers and how happy she is to be with me, and has been sending me these messages for a while even up until 2 days before she broke up with me. She says she wishes she would have met me later on in life because she would be married by now. But I am her first love, first kiss, first everything, and she says she has to know if Im supposed to be her last. She told me a couple days ago that she was breaking up with me in order to be free to experience, and see whats out there in order to have something to compare me to.
Not to brag, but i'm a good dude. I'm 22, am a corporate jet pilot, college graduate, devoted to God, respectful in every way, romantic, sexy, suave, and treated her the way my mother raised me to treat women, like queens. I took her flying in airplanes, romantic dinners, took care of her, always catered to her. Fellas, what exactly is she looking for? And why was she still sending me messages saying she was so in love just days before she made this decision? I know I have to let the caged bird go, and if it comes back...yeah yeah yeah, but do caged birds ever come back?
I enjoy soo much what we had its hard to deal with the fact that she wants to leave. On top of that, I haven't called her or made any contact with her since, but she calls me every night late at night but I dont answer. She leaves messages saying she's just used to talking to me all the time, and some nights she's restless and can't go to sleep. If she needs time, and I'm giving it to her, what's up with that?I understand that it is a natural part of life for her to want to do this. Anyone have any similar experiences? What can I expect? Let me know. I know there are other fish out there, but its hard when you were so happy.
And no, there is no other man, she and her family assured me of that and I believe it. I feel she was blessed to get someone who never wanted her to feel the pain I felt from other women, why does she want to find out so bad? Even though she's 18, she's very mature for her age. If you have something good, and it's not broken, it's better than ever..why do you give it up? When everyone wants the relationship you have, why do you let it go? It don't make no damn sense. Has this happened to anyone? How did it play out?
She always tells me that I am the man of her prayers and how happy she is to be with me, and has been sending me these messages for a while even up until 2 days before she broke up with me. She says she wishes she would have met me later on in life because she would be married by now. But I am her first love, first kiss, first everything, and she says she has to know if Im supposed to be her last. She told me a couple days ago that she was breaking up with me in order to be free to experience, and see whats out there in order to have something to compare me to.
Not to brag, but i'm a good dude. I'm 22, am a corporate jet pilot, college graduate, devoted to God, respectful in every way, romantic, sexy, suave, and treated her the way my mother raised me to treat women, like queens. I took her flying in airplanes, romantic dinners, took care of her, always catered to her. Fellas, what exactly is she looking for? And why was she still sending me messages saying she was so in love just days before she made this decision? I know I have to let the caged bird go, and if it comes back...yeah yeah yeah, but do caged birds ever come back?
I enjoy soo much what we had its hard to deal with the fact that she wants to leave. On top of that, I haven't called her or made any contact with her since, but she calls me every night late at night but I dont answer. She leaves messages saying she's just used to talking to me all the time, and some nights she's restless and can't go to sleep. If she needs time, and I'm giving it to her, what's up with that?I understand that it is a natural part of life for her to want to do this. Anyone have any similar experiences? What can I expect? Let me know. I know there are other fish out there, but its hard when you were so happy.
And no, there is no other man, she and her family assured me of that and I believe it. I feel she was blessed to get someone who never wanted her to feel the pain I felt from other women, why does she want to find out so bad? Even though she's 18, she's very mature for her age. If you have something good, and it's not broken, it's better than ever..why do you give it up? When everyone wants the relationship you have, why do you let it go? It don't make no damn sense. Has this happened to anyone? How did it play out?