What happens if...

[tightsocks]

What happens if I cold approach, get the number, schedule a date, but don't show up? If she texts "Where are you?" I just reply back with "Oh totally forgot, something came up. Can we reschedule?" Would this not get her lizard brain going 1,000 miles per hour? Her emotions would be all over the place. Especially if you combined this with heavy texting / attention / initial interest in her.

 

[tightsocks]

I guess I want to know if there is any subset of Game that deals with sticking the proverbial knife right into the heart of their emotions and getting them so spun up they want to conquer you?

 

[darksprezzatura]

Flaking on date 1 works wonders, but to do it intentionally to "game" her is over investing.

Instead schedule dates with 5 girls at the same time.

Flake on everyone except the most enthusiastic.

Repeat.

 

[Serenity]

Would this not get her lizard brain going 1,000 miles per hour?

Does it get your lizard brain going 1000 miles per hour? I think not. Believe it or not, the vast majority of women would actually reach the same rational conclusion as anyone else in that situation "oh, he's probably not that interested after all". The alternative perspective is "oh, another one trying to play games", which is even worse. So to react as you predict they have to be desperate and naive, it happens, but those women aren't exactly quality.

The reason men get oneitis and their hamster is spinning while they anxiously await her reply is because they lack options. That's how the psychology of this goes, but since women generally have more options it's rather rare for them to respond in this way. It doesn't feel like that much of a loss for her.

 

[2Rocky]

The best way is to get a nationally televised show and have a ceremony with flowers for those who pass all your "TESTS"

If you like playing games and all, **** shoot for the moon hotshot...

 

[tightsocks]

Does it get your lizard brain going 1000 miles per hour? I think not. Believe it or not, the vast majority of women would actually reach the same rational conclusion as anyone else in that situation "oh, he's probably not that interested after all". The alternative perspective is "oh, another one trying to play games", which is even worse. So to react as you predict they have to be desperate and naive, it happens, but those women aren't exactly quality.

The reason men get oneitis and their hamster is spinning while they anxiously await her reply is because they lack options. That's how the psychology of this goes, but since women generally have more options it's rather rare for them to respond in this way. It doesn't feel like that much of a loss for her.

There are tons of posts on this exact website about women flaking on the first date so yes it does get the lizard brain going...

 

[Modern Man Advice]

What happens if I cold approach, get the number, schedule a date, but don't show up? If she texts "Where are you?" I just reply back with "Oh totally forgot, something came up. Can we reschedule?" Would this not get her lizard brain going 1,000 miles per hour? Her emotions would be all over the place. Especially if you combined this with heavy texting / attention / initial interest in her.

Highly disrespectful. She does not deserve a second chance or response. Block and move on.

And since you probably will continue chasing despite what I just advised and others might advise as well, think about this. She would have showed up, no questions asked if:

1) her interest was high and genuine
2) you intrigue her
3) respects you enough to make an effort or at the very least give you a heads up (life does happen sometimes).

Please value yourself and stop letting things slide all the time. She knew exactly what she was doing.

Modern Man Advice

 

[Glassguy]

I would never flake on a first date unless something legitimately came up.

I will however "forget" around date 3 or 4. It sets the tone that she isn't the only thing going on in your life and gets their hamster spinning. And keeps them chasing.

 

[Robert28]

Lol you’ll get your ass dumped that way. You can’t play these games with women today. Why waste time with you when she has 100 simps lined up? Go on the date, make stuff happen. You ain’t gonna bang her by cancelling on her. She will have forgotten your name by the end of the day. Unless you are some super duper mega Chad, don’t try to play Chad-like games.

 

[Stuffnu]

This is what women do. Don’t be a woman. Maintain the higher standard.

 

[Tilex]

What I don't get is why you would go through all that time and effort to cold approach someone, have several conversations with them (which also takes time & effort), and then choose to flake on them?

I totally get that you want to give women a taste of their own medicine, but don't you think they would sniff out a bullsh!tter like you?
Somewhere along the line they will sh!t test your authenticity.
And not a single man, Chad or No Chad can sh!t test like women do.

 

[The Duke]

What happens if I cold approach, get the number, schedule a date, but don't show up? If she texts "Where are you?" I just reply back with "Oh totally forgot, something came up. Can we reschedule?" Would this not get her lizard brain going 1,000 miles per hour? Her emotions would be all over the place. Especially if you combined this with heavy texting / attention / initial interest in her.

What's the point? Its low interest. Spend your time on other girls.