bigshovel05
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my pictures thread
did one of the moderators delete it?
If so why?
did one of the moderators delete it?
If so why?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Um yeah you did bring race into it. You were the first one to say, and I quote "White boys next. Real men don't next"..Originally posted by bigshovel05
That comment was uncalled for.
But I do have a bone to pick, I did not bring race into any discussion, yet my user ID was banned. I signed off everthing was well, I came back this morning, was reading a flame war between RDX and jprjrjr, I tried to reply and I was banned????
That I don't understand, I also noticed jprjrjr was still posting, so he obviously wasnt.
But why in the hell was my pictures thread taken down, and why was I banned?
I had to create a new account
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That was pretty blatant of you.....for a "whiteboy" you're pretty blatant...Originally posted by Blatant truth
Here we go again.
jprjrjr, we get it. Black guys liking white women is wrong. All white women who like black guys are fat. You're a big tough guy who defeated many black guys in the ring, and you're not scared of them. Anything else? Relax.
bigshovel05, stop generalizing and calling white guys "whiteboys" and acting like it's ok.
Cheers!