"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJArlington

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i've been on a rampage the last two nights trying to pick up women. and tonight i picked up the hottest blonde in my life. my wingman (who is married but we lied to the chicks about it and i think they picked up on it) and I started talking to these two blondes at a bar. we chatted for a while etc, got them to come to another bar where i started freaking the hot blonde, she was totally into it. we got food afterwards, then my buddy went home (because he is married) and the chicks drove me home. they kept asking me about this situation because when we walked to his car they saw his car seats. man what a disaster area. i just lied and tried to play it off, but obviously the girls weren't stupid. so in the end, the girls actually drove me home because they live in the same area and at the end of the night i asked if we could exchange contact information. should i have asked the blonde directly for her number? in fact i think she wanted to chill at my place or atleast get a tour of my condo lobby etc, i just didn't know how to swing it with her friend there. so the only number i got was her friends's #. man this is so frustrating, now i just have to hope that it is the correct number. what should i do? should i set up another evening with them? i can't believe the bull**** i pulled tonight. what craziness.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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can some please help?

DJArlington said:
i've been on a rampage the last two nights trying to pick up women. and tonight i picked up the hottest blonde in my life. my wingman (who is married but we lied to the chicks about it and i think they picked up on it) and I started talking to these two blondes at a bar. we chatted for a while etc, got them to come to another bar where i started freaking the hot blonde, she was totally into it. we got food afterwards, then my buddy went home (because he is married) and the chicks drove me home. they kept asking me about this situation because when we walked to his car they saw his car seats. man what a disaster area. i just lied and tried to play it off, but obviously the girls weren't stupid. so in the end, the girls actually drove me home because they live in the same area and at the end of the night i asked if we could exchange contact information. should i have asked the blonde directly for her number? in fact i think she wanted to chill at my place or atleast get a tour of my condo lobby etc, i just didn't know how to swing it with her friend there. so the only number i got was her friends's #. man this is so frustrating, now i just have to hope that it is the correct number. what should i do? should i set up another evening with them? i can't believe the bull**** i pulled tonight. what craziness.
anyone have any thoughts?
 

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ya.......U took to long seducing and not enough time getting the digits.

You gotta have a PLAN before U sarge chics. DO U want to go on a date right then and there OR do U want a future date.

I would have invited them both up for a "TOUR".

they may have A) slept over with no sex B) slept over and both got naked C) flirted with one of them D) one could have freaked you OR E) drugged you and then surgically removed your liver.

When you go sargin' in clubs.....HAVE A PLAN.....do just wing it. Simply saying I am going to meet some hotties tonight is too generic.

Get specific, seek out CERTAIN TYPES.......and get the digits.......you can always return and re-engage later on.
 
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