"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What happened to Francisco d'anconia?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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He was one of the greatest posters on here, ever. He helped me a lot through PM's as well. Never heard from him since.
 

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my personal hero (well him and Westcoaster)... he got me into semi-professional cycling. I have so much respect for those two and miss them greatly. Probably wouldn't be nearly as successful without those two.
 

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he's married to penkitten
Think that's the wrong sosuave member.

Was squirrels sick or something? I remember talking to him a few years ago.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheVirtualMind said:
Think that's the wrong sosuave member.

Was squirrels sick or something? I remember talking to him a few years ago.
yeah, different sosuave member. How have you been Virtual? Haven't visited with you in quite a number of years.

-comic_relief
 

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backbreaker said:
he's married to penkitten
No he isn't. That is not Francisco that is Giovanni or something.

Last I talked to Francisco he said he was dating a Kim Kardashian look alike. He probably got hitched or something.

TheVirtualMind said:
Think that's the wrong sosuave member.

Was squirrels sick or something? I remember talking to him a few years ago.

Theory is squirells died. Probably on a motorcycle. He already had shattered his leg driving reckless on the motorcycle.
 

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Desdinova said:
With regards to Squirrels.... I did a bit of looking around and it seems he's alive... and with some filthy hot blonde chick :)
That must mean he has respawned with a new username. Anybody know what squirells new username is?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Galt certainly beat him (and Reardon) out when it came to grabbing Dagny.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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iqqi said:
I did some investigating too....

He is Pook, by the way.
Your internet sleuthing sucks. No he wasn't. Not unless pook was a closet over thinking pessimist who suffered bouts of self doubt, oneitis, oh and changed his actual writing style.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1838032&postcount=1

pook cops alot of flack here from frustrated keyboard warriors looking to disagree for the sake of disagreeing, lets not dumb him down and cheapen his writings even further eh? (no hommus)
 

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Your internet sleuthing sucks. No he wasn't. Not unless pook was a closet over thinking pessimist who suffered bouts of self doubt, oneitis, oh and changed his actual writing style.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1838032&postcount=1

pook cops alot of flack here from frustrated keyboard warriors looking to disagree for the sake of disagreeing, lets not dumb him down and cheapen his writings even further eh? (no hommus)
Was Pook from Baltimore? I am doubting this too. Where is some proof Iqqi?
 

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Last I knew, Pook was from Texas.

Iqqi, you are still alive? Wow...Talk about a blast from the past.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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