"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What happend to the highschool bc contest?

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Smooth what the hell y ant any1 postin bout the contest anymore? What u dont wanna be the creator of the hs-djbc anymore?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Inquire

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i was wonderin about tat too?

only like two weeks for tat.
 

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I think that the contest was a good idea for Noobs, but we all develop at different rates, and we all are at different levels, when we first start at sosuave, so maybe the contest wasn't the best idea. People all have different methods, and some have different circumstances, ie. no car, dumbass parents, or whatever.

Eevryone said they were going to continue, but they kind of dropped out. I dropped out, when I realized it wasn't the thing I wanted to do. He did take 'Creator and Founder of the HSDJContest' or whatever, out of his siggy.
 
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Originally posted by Soniq_red
The contest became privatized as emailed out once a week.
Personaly i think the contest is a great idea. Not only does it help u by pertispatin and gain more experience but gain more knowlege bout girls as other go out there and fail then post afterward. THe mail thing is just dumb becuase when u post other will see ur mistake or greatnes and learn from it. When its mail a only a couple doin it...well whats tha use?
 

[]D [] []V[] []D

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yeah i know... he said hes already on week5 like wtf..... i didnt even start school yet damit so g@y... let me join dude!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
yeah i know... he said hes already on week5 like wtf..... i didnt even start school yet damit so g@y... let me join dude!!!

lol. ah ull get ur chance.
 

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If you keep using shorthand I'm going to delete every one of your posts. Read the sticky
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
If you keep using shorthand I'm going to delete every one of your posts. Read the sticky
WOW WOW! Is that a threat? DAM* whats up with this.
 

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
WOW WOW! Is that a threat? DAM* whats up with this.
He is a moderator.
 

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
WOW WOW! Is that a threat? DAM* whats up with this.
Us Kentucky boys can't help but get into arguments. We got pride.

Kentucky pride.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Us Kentucky boys can't help but get into arguments. We got pride.

Kentucky pride.
LMAO! Damn, heard that!
 

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look at the dropped off the face of the earth thread.....i was going to be a co-founder fo the thing
 
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