What gives..

[drf408]

Things have picked up lately but I'm still running into frustrating situations on following up with girls. Odd that its just as of the last year or so that I've ever had these problems. Something threw my game off I guess.

So i had a good week last week, and went back out Sat. Met this Thai girl (in the US for 5 years now) very cute face, absolutely amazing little body. We were out hit it off great, she seem really into as everyone else in the group noticed.

So I called, no answer, she was at work. She texted me back fairly quickly that she was working. So we were going back and forth, she has some communication issues it seems which can be bad for texting. She thought I was asking her out that night, not sure why, but went with it. So she tells me she really likes my company and we can go out this weekend or sooner. She kept making a point that she's looking forward to it. So my last reply was "great, I'll let you know tomorrow, I have to check work but Weds or Thurs for sure!'" No response.
Next morning I receive "Good morning!!Driving too..hope you have a great day! " . So I respond later "Lets go ___ tomorrow night..". About 10 minutes later she calls, but its a 1 ringer. She immediately sends a text "Oops!! Sorry didn't mean to call you" But doesn't respond to my actual message. So weds passes. I text her a "hi" a few hours later she responds. Chatty as hell. Asks me if I have Facebook blah blah...ask her to come have a drink with me. Conversation stops dead.
Do I just leave it be or is there something I should reply with to re initiate it? She was borderline over zealous to hang out and a day later not having it lol.

 

[Tiguere]

Attention wh0re. Careful with these attention suckers. They will suck all the attention and time they can from you.

 

[rocket87]

I don't think she's an attention *****, I think she has options, and you're just another plate.

In other words, she's a dj, you're playing her games, not much you can do unless she actually goes fwd with hanging out.

judge a woman by her actions not her words. if she wants to hang she will.

 

[Tiguere]

She is an attention wh0re. Dj or no dj SHE IS JUST SEEKING ATTENTION.

 

[EvilAgenda]

Are you trying to convince yourself there is a reason why she hasn't agreed to go out with you other than because she doesn't want to go out with you?

 

[drf408]

Lol no I am not, i was just asking if there is a good approach to turning it around. Not the first time I've been in this spot, sometimes, surprisingly something comes out of it. Other times, nothing.
It's more frustrating than anything. She was over eager one minute and doesn't care the next. When I was with her on Sat, we walked right by my place when we were walking her and her friends back to their car. She wanted to come in with me but her friends put a stop to that. She actually texted me after I posted this "I have to see how I feel tomorrow", I have no plans with her. So I ask her what she means she replies "i don't think I feel like going out and drinking". So obviously shes not really interested now, as I never even mentioned doing that. I'm more annoyed than anything now, so I just am dropping it and didn't bother to respond.
Never know whats going on with a girl. I met a girl about 5-6 months ago at our favorite bar. She appeared to be so into me, insisted I call her. I did, nothing. A few weeks ago, I get a Facebook add request, within minutes of accepting she starts chatting on the FB IM. She eventually came over last week. I looked at her page, she had been in a relationship up until a little over a month, obviously not a good one. Just never know.