What gives???

[leeman67]

There is this girl that works in the Spa at my gym . I have become to know here very well, so I always take time to talk to her when I see her. I have never flirted with her or hit on her because I have heard her mention her husband. Still, She is very down home and friendly, so I always make the time to talk to her.


Here is where I am stumped. There are times I have heard her mention her husband, Other times, she refers to him as her boyfriend. So what gives here? I have been tempted to ask which one is he, but she may think I am hitting on her when Im just being friendly myself.


Any input guys?

 

[lookyoung]

My input would be to read the DJ bible and not to post here until your done reading it. Mods please move this to the highschool forum in the meantime.

 

[leeman67]

My input would be to read the DJ bible and not to post here until your done reading it. Mods please move this to the highschool forum in the meantime.

The Wonderful thing about Forums is that you can pick out the replys that best help answer your questions and disregard the rest. NEXT

 

[jophil28]

Ignore the idiotic replies leeman67.

I have to admit, I don't know the answer to this, unless perhaps she has both? LOL

You need to get clear about the difference between a women "being friendly" and one who is showing INTEREST in you. Before you become involved in any way with this woman you should find out is she is available.
Why not just come out and ask her," are you single ?" If she hemms and haws or gives you some 'womaneze' crap about her being in a relationship that is ending, then,she is probably an AW - in which case you take your interest and yourself and point both at someone ekse.

 

[leeman67]

Ignore the idiotic replies leeman67.

I have to admit, I don't know the answer to this, unless perhaps she has both? LOL

Thanks Danger, To be honest, I think the intentions of this post was misread. Im not pursuing this woman by any means. She is just someone that I have became familar with and just enjoy talking to her. She has that HIGH spritied personality and is a good confersationlist. I was just kind of wonderin if she is mis reading my intentions. That is the only reason I can guess to why sometimes she has a husband, sometimes a boyfriend.