"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What givens you the most confidence before you go out?

Blackhole105

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For me it looking in the mirror and liking what I see. If I say, "damn I look good" before for i go out I'll feel good the whole night. Of course this can have the opposite effect as well. If I think I look like sh!t then I will feel like sh!t.

Anyone else have any other tips for a quick confidence boost?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Rebound Material

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I listen to Bloc Party's "The Prayer". It gets my moral up.
 

Obsidian

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looking in the mirror is actually a pretty good idea. almost Tips-worthy

I heard that doing some light exercises (maybe 30 pushups and 30 crunches) also helps
 

CORVETTE06

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i look at my giant wang in the mirror.


just kidding. i tell myself im the best, i make sure i have the best clothes, make sure i smell good, and tell myself im the gift to the girl, not the girl being the gift to me.

your mindset plays a major role on your game. you may not realize it but it does. give yourself confidence and place positive thoughts in your head and you will destine yourself to succeed in anything you do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Obsidian

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on the other hand, i sometimes like to dress down before going out just to reassure myself of the fact that a man is not defined by his looks. Also, if you get blown off, you can laugh it off easier if you were dressed mediocre rather than really striving to please (and striving to please others is generally bad for your soul, anyway)
 

MooseGod

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I just think about what an awesome time I'm about to have, and realize I don't give a fawk what anybody thinks about me. Not suprisingly, when I go out to have fun, I do great with the ladies. When I go out to purposely pick up chicks, I don't do so well. Funny how that works.
 

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I read "think and grow rich" or "the success principles" and that usually pumps me up to go take on the world and make me have a proper mindset.

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oh yes.swayay

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I usually make an effort to greet and talk to everyone I know (even just acquaintances) that day. Anytime I use the bus I would greet the bus driver and say thank you when I get off. So my good mood and confidence continuously builds up and I'm pumped when I once it's time to go out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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War Against Betaism

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I usually watch an episode of an action show and it gets my adrenaline going on and my confidence up.
 

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Kevin Levrone and Ronnie Coleman vids.

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