"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What Girls Tell me They Think of Me? Help & Input Needed

cadilacone

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Here is what I am constantly finding girls telling they think of me since started working on DJing. First off I always get:
"You are always positive"
"You seem so laid back"
"You don't worry alot do you?"

Not those specific quotes but down those lines, I don't think that is bad but a good thing. Also when I meet new girls I always get them saying "I don't think Cadilacone likes me?". They ussally say this right in front of me. So I figure they are semi-joking, and they just haven't caught onto my sarcasm yet....idk....What do you guys think? Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i am me

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If you're so positive and laidback then why do you worry about these things? It's obvious man....
 

cubed

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It's all good. Those three characteristics are important for any DJ.
 
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