"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What exactly are you looking for?

What are you looking for the most?

  • ONS

    Votes: 2 8.7%

  • STR

    Votes: 5 21.7%

  • LTR

    Votes: 11 47.8%

  • Marriage

    Votes: 2 8.7%

  • Other

    Votes: 1 4.3%

  • None of these (specify)

    Votes: 2 8.7%
  • Total voters
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Master Don Juan
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What kind of interaction with women do you want in your immediate future?

I'm in the market for something long-term. I'm not quite ready for marriage quite yet, but in a year or two I would definitely start giving it serious thought.

I've had my share of flings and short-term deals, and I'm ready to move beyond that into something that is a little bit more real.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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STR8UP

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Ideally......a fukk buddy and whatever else comes along for a short term deal.

I made a vow to my friends that I would not get involved in anythng that resembles an LTR for at least the next two years. That would pretty much be my record for being single. It would take an absolutely AMAZING woman to get me to break this. My friends don't think I can do it. Only about a year and eight months to go....
 
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OzyBoy

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Yeah LTR for me,marriage later on if we are together for a while.
 
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Ice Cold

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Yeah LTR for me,marriage later on if we are together for a while.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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