"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What Every DJ Needs in His Wardrobe.

the12thplanet

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Originally posted by pandoralsu
I never saw vanity being so cute before... boys, y'all just keep thinking you know what fashion is, you're amusing me much!

[This message has been edited by pandoralsu (edited 06-24-2002).]
if we're so clueless then perhaps you could enlighten us?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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fender85

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Uhh . . . it's been three years. Time to let it go, man.
 

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I'll toss this thread in the time machine and let them know...
 

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Faun said:
7 & 8. A button-down dress shirt and tie. You can't go wrong with a white dress shirt. You can either have a patterned tie and solid shirt or a solid shirt and a patterned tie. Having both patterned is too visually distracting and having both solid is boring, unless they're shades of the same color (like what Regis Philbin wears). If the tie and shirt are shades of the same color (as well as the jacket if you're wearing a jacket), it's a very classy look.
Although I agree on not having both patterned at the same time, I couldn't disagree more on defining boring having both solid. The most powerful men in the world (Putin, not beta-Obama) wear solid shirts and solid ties with a completely different colour (generally shirt is white) or go for a solid shirt and a patterned tie. Having both solid of the same colour is a movie thing and absolutely far from being classy, the tie should stand out and being visible but not excessive (there's no point to wear it otherwise).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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