The man @jimjam is clean and sober around five years I believe......
He's also shared his story of successfully pulling himself out of the addiction pit here with the
intention of helping other men. That ain't pathetic.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
He's also shared his story of successfully pulling himself out of the addiction pit here with the
intention of helping other men. That ain't pathetic.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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BlueAlpha1
Guest
DMT - the clear scientific explanation of "near death experiences". After reading 7 books on the topic, which provided absolutely zero evidence of an afterlife that wasn't purely anectodal, I was appalled that scientists making the claim of "heaven" didn't address the elephant in the room...DMT
DMT is the reason that a Christian from America, a Jew from Israel, a Hindu from India could all report the same visions of light and beautiful colors during their brush with death. The DMT drug/hormone produces universal halluscinations of pretty colors in the same way Diphenhydramine (benadryl) produces halluscinations of spiders in just about everyone who takes it in high dosages.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
The 'life flashing before your eyes' when you die has been attributed to the brain having about ten minutes worth of oxygen left before it dies. During that time, it plays you a nice montage film of your life, a little entertainment for you on your way out.
It#d be nice to see big boobs flashing before my eyes before I die.
mdma, xtc, weed, coke, shrooms, lsd, 2cb, salvia, ketamine, nitrous oxide.
Haven't done anything since I did coke about 18 months ago. Used to smoke weed every day before that.
One time I did xtc, coke and ketamine all at the same time (though small doses of each), and after I rolled the joint I had to give it to the guy next to me to light because I felt my heart would explode out of my chest if I raised my arms up to light it myself.
Salvia is by far the whackiest thing I've ever done in my life. It's like god just takes you out of this little box which we call our universe. I thought I had woken up from a dream (life) and wanted nothing more than to go back to the dream.
Haven't done anything since I did coke about 18 months ago. Used to smoke weed every day before that.
One time I did xtc, coke and ketamine all at the same time (though small doses of each), and after I rolled the joint I had to give it to the guy next to me to light because I felt my heart would explode out of my chest if I raised my arms up to light it myself.
Salvia is by far the whackiest thing I've ever done in my life. It's like god just takes you out of this little box which we call our universe. I thought I had woken up from a dream (life) and wanted nothing more than to go back to the dream.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I got poison ivy. Doc gave me some kind of steroid. Roid rage is real. And it makes you hungry af too. Same thing with my brother. We were both just super hyper, angry, and hungry all the time. I had 4 chipotle burritos and was gonna eat a fifth but my dad told me to stop lol. I was 13. Not a typical experience cuz I refuse to do anything else. That other stuff will make me schizophrenic if I did. That's what happened to my uncle at least, and we've got similar tendencies. Now he's a vegetable.
jimjam
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Thanks @Reykhel. 11 years 4 mos clean and sober after a 15 year drinking and drugging career.
I can say this. Booze and dope are not worth it. At all. If you can handle it, fine. Habitually will cause all make and manner of problems vand drama.
Again...if you think you have a problem, no matter how seemingly miniscule, you most likely do.
I've done them all at one time or another. And despite my affinity for acid, I can say that at no time did my life improve because of it
I can say this. Booze and dope are not worth it. At all. If you can handle it, fine. Habitually will cause all make and manner of problems vand drama.
Again...if you think you have a problem, no matter how seemingly miniscule, you most likely do.
I've done them all at one time or another. And despite my affinity for acid, I can say that at no time did my life improve because of it
Steady Eddie
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The only thing I haven't done is heroin and I would like to do that at some point.
Though nothing beats good coke.
Though nothing beats good coke.