"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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so i was talking to her on facebook today.. i send her a funny picture of " the booty call contract" pretty funny.

then she told me she had a dream about me ( stalker much) i asked her about what happened and she said

"I wish I
Could remember, though I know you were dating a few other girls, by the end of it you weren't... I can't remember in between lol"

by the end of me questioning her about it, she told me that she remembers that i fell head over heels for her.

i think it's just some wishful thinking on her part. or what it's just a sign i should slow down.

what do you think
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Packers2010 said:
so i was talking to her on facebook today.. i send her a funny picture of " the booty call contract" pretty funny.

then she told me she had a dream about me ( stalker much) i asked her about what happened and she said

"I wish I
Could remember, though I know you were dating a few other girls, by the end of it you weren't... I can't remember in between lol"

by the end of me questioning her about it, she told me that she remembers that i fell head over heels for her.

i think it's just some wishful thinking on her part. or what it's just a sign i should slow down.

what do you think
Well you have her thinking about you at least subconsciously.I don't know what exactly to make of her ********. What are your plans with this girl?
 

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my plans with this girl is to sleep with her. other then that i'm not sure. i mean. she is a cool girl, but she just comes with too much baggage. she has a kid to another guy who she was with for like 9 years and she loved him very much.

so.. i don't really want to get down with that. i mean, i'm new to pick up, there so much i want to see and do before i settled down.

we made plans too do a record night, witch will happen. but dates ate sketchy because she lives like an hour away from me. she also lives with her folks and so do I. so logistics are just fooked. i could get a hotel. but i'm not sure if she IS dtf. i mean. over text shes is. but real life? not sure.
 

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Long distance relationships are definitely not the way to go. Generally it's best just to go with the rule that if she doesn't live in your town then it's not worth it. She's like they say in the old country a momma and poppa girl. Those are generally extremely tough and are generally not the dtf type.

A hotel? This reminds me of a bad high school scenario. LOL
9 years is a long time, it usually takes about a year of recovery to completely heal those heavy wounds. My advice is not end up as her rebound guy.
 

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vantagepoint said:
Long distance relationships are definitely not the way to go. Generally it's best just to go with the rule that if she doesn't live in your town then it's not worth it. She's like they say in the old country a momma and poppa girl. Those are generally extremely tough and are generally not the dtf type.

A hotel? This reminds me of a bad high school scenario. LOL
9 years is a long time, it usually takes about a year of recovery to completely heal those heavy wounds. My advice is not end up as her rebound guy.
she dose live in the same city as me. just one the other side of town.

plus, I've been a reboud guy before. it's a cushy job. all the attention and sex you could want for a month. then nothing.

i think i Like her, but not enough to be her gf or anything. i just don't have any other girls atm so i'm just following this one up. after the holidays are over. i will get back into full swing and get more girls. she will be on the back burner then.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yeah.. i fooked it up...

i love self amusing threw text. though sh$$ started to get real.

we was talking about me in her dreams,

she says " packers in my dreams you can say and do whoever you want ecept me ( cause I like to play hard to get)

( i guess i start to get pissed at this)

me: " playing hard to get isn't fun. what i propose is a lot more fun! so why play hard to get? "

her: well i don't like easy, and i spend time pondering on what i want, as to what i do."

me: i'd ask you to sext with me now but i don't know how long you would ponder on it :p

one thing i have learned is.. you have life and ride it while you can because tomorrow it isn't going to be there. that's for everything in life.

( this is me hinting at her to get her **** together)

her: yeah i agree with you. I've done that for awhile now, not enjoying it so much anymore.. when it comes to sex anyway. there's always a time you come to when you think enough is enough... i'm not looking for anything from anyone but i'm not giving myself up to just anyone

( i get pissed here.. i was 2:30 am when i sent this and i was really tired. though i think i still stand by what i say next)

me: you say this..yet you dream about me. explain that?

i think you WANT something to happen between us buy pass experiences are holding you back.. don't let it. ( me referring to her ex)

i think your a cool girl but i don't really know for sure. I don't really know YOU. i want to ask you out but you got to let me... don't play games.. don't mess around... come out with me on
Saturday at 7, I will show you my world if you show me mine.


that ast text pretty much killed it. though i did send at 2:30am. it doesn't really matter. i'm pretty sure she likes me. she just won't come out so i can get close to her. so i'll just wait till NYE and text her then. i'll just keep going sexual every opportunity i get and see how that goes.

though i'll be going after other girls too.. i just need to get back in the club


EDIT: she sent me a message before saying she is attracted to me because i send her sexual messages and is attracted to womanizers (LOL at me being a womanizer!) so i'm pretty much in. will try set something up for later.
 
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