"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What doesn’t it take for a true dj to commit

captain55

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For me.... i know for me to commit again I truly have to believe the girl is the best I can do. Looks, body, personality, morals, everything. I don’t care how hot the chick is your currently dating, if you have the slightest doubt in your mind that you can do better do not commit. I like many of you made the mistake of settling for “pretty good” (an 8.5 that digged me and was talented ) ...well I lost out on two or three 9’s that came along over that time period.

So many guys stay with their current chick because they are pussies and can’t handle rejection. Just because a girl rejects you does not make her better than you. I could reject a Victoria secret supermodel right now, does that make me more attractive than her? No lol.

I also am of the belief that it’s better to go home alone and jerk off than settle for a chick that isn’t rediculosuly hot to you. I never go back to exes, I never recycle *****. I’m always onto the next better thing, and I don’t care if i have to be a little patient to get it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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