CORVETTE06
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What does your "Date" consist of? Especially a first date...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What Does Your "Date" Consist Of?
- Thread starter CORVETTE06
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
selfmademob
Banned
Sex, and lots of it
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
The ultimate Day2...
Going to a walmart, best buy, circuit city, target, toys r us or any big store similar to those. It works out great too because I can generally sarge anywhere and venue change to these places in the FIRST day of meeting her so thats another bonus.
Before actually realizing those places were good for day2s, I used to bring chicks to the mall or a shopping area and window shop.
Both cost no money, even though the chicks tend to buy food after, or we go back to there place and eat food, movie goes on but is never watched...
Going to a walmart, best buy, circuit city, target, toys r us or any big store similar to those. It works out great too because I can generally sarge anywhere and venue change to these places in the FIRST day of meeting her so thats another bonus.
Before actually realizing those places were good for day2s, I used to bring chicks to the mall or a shopping area and window shop.
Both cost no money, even though the chicks tend to buy food after, or we go back to there place and eat food, movie goes on but is never watched...
MooseGod
Master Don Juan
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tequila and rock music. bring her to a party. something cheap.
or there's always the movies or dinner if you're feeling chumpy.
or there's always the movies or dinner if you're feeling chumpy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Eat, drink and fvck
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.