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what does 'were friends' mean in ********

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Originally posted by Jaun_Don
yeah I think you are right ...so I should just Next her and move on?...what would you do?
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Could have sworn I told you what to do with this b!tch back here .

And I have to say this tactic?
I'm not sure if I should have done this or not but she txtd me and said "sorry I have been busy 2 day but hi"...so I txted her back and told her I got a ph number last night (I did) and asked her if the rule was 3 days before I called her and she sent a txt back saying umm i have no idea about that sorry...have a gd nite bye.
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Was extremely weak, not congruent with anything this place tells you, a chick tactic at best.

And for what its worth (not much obviously because your not really listening are you?) this guy nailed it.
NEXT!

She's using you for attention. Women like to know that they are still attractive to opposite sex even if they are in a comitted relationship. So they flirt, tease, and mess with the heads of other guys just to see if they can get a rise out of them.
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She sussed out what sort of guy she was dealing with back when you didnt attempt to sex her before in all likelyhood hence you were designated a play thing, a puppet she can pull strings on and amuse herself with for awhile.
 

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This is how it works:

1. She is attracted to you
2. She spends time with you
3. If you do not make a move to fvck her, she LJBF you.


Having said that, you should've fvcked her when she came to your house.
 
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Originally posted by alnite
This is how it works:

1. She is attracted to you
2. She spends time with you
3. If you do not make a move to fvck her, she LJBF you.


Having said that, you should've fvcked her when she came to your house.
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She's got a BOY FRIEND
 
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Originally posted by Jaun_Don
She's got a BOY FRIEND
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Oh please, a girl with a boyfriend come to hangout in another man's house is attempting to cheat on his boyfriend. If you have ever had a girlfriend interested in you, have you ever caught her not hanging out with you?
 
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Originally posted by alnite
Oh please, a girl with a boyfriend come to hangout in another man's house is attempting to cheat on his boyfriend. If you have ever had a girlfriend interested in you, have you ever caught her not hanging out with you?
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alnite is right. You should have fvcked her, boyfriend or no boyfriend.She was with you not him. I say just next her so this situation doesn't get anymore complicated.
Unless of course she has some fine female friends. Then I'd say use her as a wing woman like someone here suggested.
 

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I don't **** girls with boyfriends...I used too but I know the pain when I get cheated on, so I don't do it, she just wants to be friends and I can handle that.

If she flirts with me or shows signs of interest then I will tell her straight but as of now we are just friends...sometimes a guy needs female friends to hang out with.
 
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I admire your 'noble' motives

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
sometimes a guy needs female friends to hang out with.
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Are you hearing yourself? snap out of it!
 
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Originally posted by Jaun_Don
I don't **** girls with boyfriends...I used too but I know the pain when I get cheated on, so I don't do it, she just wants to be friends and I can handle that.

If she flirts with me or shows signs of interest then I will tell her straight but as of now we are just friends...sometimes a guy needs female friends to hang out with.
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Ok cool I can exept that you dont **** girls who have bf's, and like having female friends strictly platonic. But if thats how you feel, then whats the problem? I mean this in a respectful way. I'm just asking why is this even an issue, if you're satisfied in just being friends?
You obviously want to do something with her. But if you live by your code, then why bother with her?
 
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Originally posted by Dee-Zy
it means you are being used as a tool to elevate her self confidence while she ****s her boyfriend and you are home furstrated and masturbating.
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Agreed!

This girl is just smoke and mirrors. I can't be precise but she seems like another Aw. When you get mixed messages, like a lot of flirting, but a BF/ friends zone/ or any other barrier and you feel all confused, It's probable that you have an Aw in front of you.
 
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WHY DOES THIS THREAD HAVE 2 PAGES?????


I already told you what does 'we're friends' means in ********. You are such a clueless idiot THAT HER BEST FRIEND HAD TO EMAIL YOU?????????????????????????????



She said she wouldn't even date u if she was single!!!!!!!!!!


somebody close this damn thread.
 

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Bummer...I just got a message from her best friend...

"i dont want you to get hurt,so i think I should say that she only views you as a friend,and likes your company alot and says you are a lot of fun,but only wants to be friends and nothing more,even if she's ever single again."

to the point wouldn't you say...oh well...NEXT...
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INSTANT GAME. is her "best friend" cute? if so, GO FOR IT! if she's her best friend, they're likely to hang out, SO, continue hanging out with the AW, but game her friend :D

//Deus
 
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Originally posted by Deus
INSTANT GAME. is her "best friend" cute? if so, GO FOR IT! if she's her best friend, they're likely to hang out, SO, continue hanging out with the AW, but game her friend :D

//Deus
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first of all, slap yourself.
Second, there are NEVER two hot bestfriends.
Third, you think a guy that has been twirled around a girl's finger will be attractive to her best friend? NO. Chances are, she has been telling her bestfriend all about how a LOSER dude has been, and how she's been using him and how he doesn't get a freaking clue.
 
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Originally posted by Dee-Zy
You think a guy that has been twirled around a girl's finger will be attractive to her best friend? NO. Chances are, she has been telling her bestfriend all about how a LOSER dude has been, and how she's been using him and how he doesn't get a freaking clue.
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You hit the nail on the head here. If I were in his case I wouldn't even bother trying to hit on her friend. She has probably been brainwashed by the girl who dumped him.
 
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Originally posted by Dee-Zy
WHY DOES THIS THREAD HAVE 2 PAGES?????


I already told you what does 'we're friends' means in ********. You are such a clueless idiot THAT HER BEST FRIEND HAD TO EMAIL YOU?????????????????????????????



She said she wouldn't even date u if she was single!!!!!!!!!!


somebody close this damn thread.
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yeah she sent me messages at My Space to clear things up...these girls are too young for me anyway and she admitted that...oh well...things will happen when they are supposed to happen.
 
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