"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what does 'we will catch up soon' mean?

VladPatton

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The guys gave great advice here. I'd like to add that if she doesn't reply to 2 of your texts, then just do yourself a favor and delete her ass. You can be sure beyond a shadow of a doubt that she's not interested in you. People that are interested in you, your skills, or your money, will move mountains to get to you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Espi said:
Be UN-reasonably specific when inviting women to meet with you.

In fact, make it a point to be unreasonable toward women the majority of the time. Remember, they like the jerk more than they like the nice guy right? Is there anything reasonable about that?

If you ask me why it's necessary to be so specific when inviting a chick to meet with you, I won't be able to provide you a direct answer. I will just tell you from many years of experience that being very specific and clear seems to work very well. I personally think it's because women are biologically designed and programmed to follow men. They do well with instructions. They like men who clearly and freely communicate their desires.

In general, people respond to the way that they are spoken to. Just think about that. If you give her a very specific invite, she will likely give you a very specific answer. It's really that simple.

Never give them the opportunity to reply with, "well we'll catch up when I'm ready." Its either yes or no to my invite on 8th Street and Main in Tampa on Saturday afternoon at 2 p.m. A one-shot deal.
Specificity in inquiry or as a statement? For example, I tell her "Let's meet at (exact place and time) or "Want to meet at? (exact place and time). A headstrong women might take offense to statements so early on I'd think.
 
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