"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what does ur screen name mean?

_sideways_

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Just want to add a little fun by knowing how you came up with ur screen names?

Legday is funny to me cuz of leg days at the gym. Do you like or hate leg days? Lol

sideways is because I get in the pvssy sideways lmao! And I used to drink, I would walk sideways, but never fell. And now I'm a pro at that shyt. Lol.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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El Payaso

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El Payaso means The Clown in Spanish. I'm a clown by trade.
 

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_sideways_ said:
Just want to add a little fun by knowing how you came up with ur screen names?

Legday is funny to me cuz of leg days at the gym. Do you like or hate leg days? Lol

sideways is because I get in the pvssy sideways lmao! And I used to drink, I would walk sideways, but never fell. And now I'm a pro at that shyt. Lol.

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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: funny sh!t dude!

Logical = how I think and act. I have been accused by even some guys (AFCs) as being too logical and not emotional enough.

Lefty = Left handed, not left politics (liberal) as many have assumed. My mom, dad, both sisters, and one grandparent on each side were also left handed. It's extremely dominant in my family.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maximus Rex

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The Origin of Rex Screen Name

It's Latin and should translate into "King the Great," Omnipotens Maximus Rex is "Almighty King the Great." I wanted to use my childhood nickname "President," but that was a common user name and I wasn't going to put a number at the end of the it. So I decided upon Omnipotens Maximus Rex because of the uniqueness of the name and it was something that I wouldn't forget.
 

MtnMan

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mtnman: I live in the mountains, and do a lot of mountain man type activities.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MattTheW

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Friend always called me matt the w so i just took out the spaces
 

Gray The Prince

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My name is Gray and I have the ****iness and charm of a prince.



Plus its on the back of my high school football letterman jacket.
 

narcissist

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Mine means i am a good hearted person and am very well intentioned.

It also relates to the epitome of being an honest humble human being.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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old_skoolr

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Mine comes from the fact my dad was already into his mid-late 40s when I was a kid and I had some older uncles in their 50s. Being a geny y brought up by baby boomers, I always had a different mentality to most kids my age.

Plus I'm a fan of the classic stuff. My cd shelf is stacked from early to mid 90s hip hop and old nintendo games which I still play today and I'm 24 haha

Aint no school like the old school.
 

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The Monkey King, aka Sun Wukong, is the hero of the ancient Chinese novel Journey to the West. Sun Wukong gained supernatural power through Taoism

Has been made a film this year which stars Zoe Salanda, who I would gladly make my Queen.
 

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Joe Frazier. Heavy weight champion in the 1960's and 1970's. He beat Muhammad Ali as well before they had a rematch and he lost. I guess you could say he was the second best which kind of symbolized, to me, that someone is always better than you- which is okay.
 

Epimanes

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Mine is biblical... It means mad man or crazy. Why? Because sometimes I thought I was crazy and or mad for being able to make my marriage last for darn near 20 years (19 years together to be exact on oct.5th). Crazy... (Where did all the time go?)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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