mtllcanpssy
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I just am confused with this quote and maybe one of ya'll can help me out.
"do or do not, there is no try"
"do or do not, there is no try"
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
what does this yoda quote mean?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Smooth as Anything
Master Don Juan
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You either act or don't. The answer "Try" is the answer of someone who is not confidant.
In the end, you either do or don't do (do not). There is no try.
In the end, you either do or don't do (do not). There is no try.
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
Woh, yoda must have got laiiiiiid.
Oh god. That's a horrible picture
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Oh god. That's a horrible picture
.The Irish Corleone
Don Juan
If you go into a situation doubting yourslef like Luke did at the time, you are doomed to fail.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.