"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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solo1

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Girl from class:

me, her and 2 other guys are in a group discussion during class.
At the end of class when she leaves, "call me if you have questions about class."

Well we have each other's #. she's foreign exchange student, Maybe she's bad at communicating in english, but she appears to talk to everyone else in the same form as me. Altho today, she came late, she decided to join my group instead of another group (which her guy friend was in). And knew about leaving early, but didnt yet until her guy friend came by and told her to go.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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need more backround information about you and this chick, could just be what you said, she want you to call her if you have any questions, or could be more, really though, more backround is needed
 

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She joined you're group to make the guy friend jelous and it worked so the guy friend came, took her away and probably fu*ked her. While you're sitting at home masturbating over her.

Or i could be totally wrong.

Ninja out
 

solo1

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Originally posted by Black_Italian

Or i could be totally wrong.

Ninja out
yes you are, but doesnt matter im not interested in her, she's a 5/6.
 

Black_Italian

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Im wrong? About what part? You masturbating over her? How can you be sure that she didn't join you're group to make him jelous? How can you be sure her "guy friend" isn't fu*king her? Bottom line is if she's intrested in you she wouldn't have left with him.

Also don't talk **** if you weren't intrested you wouldn't have made this thread. You want her.

Ninja out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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