“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HappyHobo

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Dear Don Juans,

There's this girl who i've been "tallking to" ... and well when shes

around me .. she always likes to use the same words and

phrases i use and do the same stuff i do... i don't think she is

doing it on purpose to imitate or mock me.. because it just happens.....

What does this body and speech language mean???
Any "dj's" have any ideas ....

Thank you

With cordial greetings,
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Elimidate

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She may have read a good book about gaining rapport or it could easily be natural.

Eitherway, it makes you feel you have a connection with her right?

Some people are on the same wave length. Sort of like then you pickup the phone and it doesn't ring for the person calling you on the other end becasue you picked it up to call them at the exact same time.

Roll with it, its a good thing.

Elimidate
 

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Priming

Priming is an increase in the speed or accuracy of a decision that occurs as a consequence of a prior exposure to some of the information in the decision context, without any intention or task related motivation. Since priming occurs in tasks where memory for previous information is not required, and may even have detrimental effects, it is assumed to be an involuntary and perhaps unconscious phenomenon. One of the original demonstrations (Meyer and Schvaneveldt, 1971) of priming occurred in a lexical decisiontask in which a series of decisions is made about whether letter strings are words or not. Priming was shown to occur in cases where two successive letter strings were semantically related words. For example the decision that 'doctor' is a word was faster when the preceding letter string was 'nurse' as compared to 'north' or the non-word 'nuber'. This semantic priming effect was explained by a mechanism termed spreading activation that had been proposed by Collins and Loft us in a 1975 paper that updated the concepts originally set out by Collins and Quillian. In this new view semantic memory was based on a network that was not strictly hierarchical and for which intersection search was not a suitable search mechanism. Instead Collins and Loftus proposed when the memory representation for a concept is activated the activation spreads to neighboring stored representations. If such a neighbor is presented as the next letter string in a lexical decision (or other) task, it will be identified sooner because it was partially activated by the prime word even before being presented. An underlying assumption is that related words are stored nearer one another (as in Collins and Quillian) than unrelated so that priming is proportional to semantic relatedness. It is important to note that priming occurs in the lexical decision task even though that task does not require participants to remember or use information about letter strings from the previous trials. Priming is therefore believed to occur without intention and is described as an 'automatic' process. It also seems to occur without awareness and is therefore described as an 'unconscious process'. These characteristics distinguish priming from aspects of memory involving deliberate retrieval as used in most episodic memory tests. As is explained below, in the view of many theorists priming and episodic retrieval are actually examples of two different kinds of memory: implicit and explicit memory.
 

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Good point Dannyboy but....

I do believe if you recheck your facts, the first demonstration of priming by Meyer and Schaneveldt occured in 1970 not 1971.

Get your facts straight you idiot!
 

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If she is reading cosmo or a similar magazine she would know about mirroring, a thing women (not just men) use to build rapport, however thats HIGHLY unlikely. Just dont take anything too seriously.

On another note, a couple of years back as an AFC I used to mirror unknowingly with a girl, but ended up looking really stupid. :D
 
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