"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kyo

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I had a close friend who I was attracted to and because of my AFCness, I was just an emotional tampon to her and she was benefiting from the friendship while being in a relationship. Anyways we were always intimate like holding each other/hands and affectionate kissing. Never a real kiss on the lips (she'd stop me).

Anyways, I met this one girl who turned into my FB, but I was still in love with my friend. So as I was screwing this girl, I was still pursuing her. Finally after prom, we were drunk and some things went done we both don't remember well. She was so into thinking what her boyfriend would think and I told her don't you have any idea how I feel?

So I shut her off my life (even now) and didn't talk to her. She drunk calls me one night after some months and tells me to stop ****ing my ex. And says I'm always so "nice" to my other friend (her best friend which is another story). She then told me she wanted to see me and I was like, "look we need more time away from each other. especially for my part."

What do you think of this? Oh and thank you Djs, I've been improving my game in college and i'll only get better.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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