"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kool-Aid Man

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ive been talking to this girl and everything seems to be going pretty good, seems like i have a chance of getting her. One day she asks me if i like her and i told her ya. Next few days everything is fine, but then like three days later she totally ignores me and doesnt say a thing to me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Maybe she has the same feelings for you and after you said you liked her, she started feeling pressured/nervous to make it go somewhere. So now the easiest thing is to avoid you.

It can most likely be fixed though. Just go up to her and start talking to her like you normally would, or if you're really bold, just ask her out or something and see what she says.
 

WesCottII

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She's a d!ck tease.

They thrive on attention the way comedians thrive on laughs. You deprive them of it, and they'll do anything to get them back.

You pretty much told this girl you were into her. Where's the challenge now? She's got nothing to get from you.

The best analogy I can give is a game like Tekken. You fight and win upto the last boss, but he keeps beating you. So you spend hour after hour fighting, day after day, beating him becomes your goal. One day you do beat him. Then thats it, you don't play Tekken anymore.
 

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Kool-Aid Man said:
ive been talking to this girl and everything seems to be going pretty good, seems like i have a chance of getting her. One day she asks me if i like her and i told her ya. Next few days everything is fine, but then like three days later she totally ignores me and doesnt say a thing to me.
When a girl asks you if you like her it most likely means that she likes you. You should have made a move on her soon after that.

You may still have a shot with her but you must act fast.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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