"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ive been talking to this girl and everything seems to be going pretty good, seems like i have a chance of getting her. One day she asks me if i like her and i told her ya. Next few days everything is fine, but then like three days later she totally ignores me and doesnt say a thing to me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maybe she has the same feelings for you and after you said you liked her, she started feeling pressured/nervous to make it go somewhere. So now the easiest thing is to avoid you.

It can most likely be fixed though. Just go up to her and start talking to her like you normally would, or if you're really bold, just ask her out or something and see what she says.
 
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She's a d!ck tease.

They thrive on attention the way comedians thrive on laughs. You deprive them of it, and they'll do anything to get them back.

You pretty much told this girl you were into her. Where's the challenge now? She's got nothing to get from you.

The best analogy I can give is a game like Tekken. You fight and win upto the last boss, but he keeps beating you. So you spend hour after hour fighting, day after day, beating him becomes your goal. One day you do beat him. Then thats it, you don't play Tekken anymore.
 
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Kool-Aid Man said:
ive been talking to this girl and everything seems to be going pretty good, seems like i have a chance of getting her. One day she asks me if i like her and i told her ya. Next few days everything is fine, but then like three days later she totally ignores me and doesnt say a thing to me.
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When a girl asks you if you like her it most likely means that she likes you. You should have made a move on her soon after that.

You may still have a shot with her but you must act fast.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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