"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tsmith2334

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Say your making plans to hang out with a girl for a certain night... when the times comes you call her up and she doesn't pick up...

However instead she leaves you an IM saying she got the call and she's ready to hang out... Could it be a sign of nervousness on her part?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dav22

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It could be that she's not a phone person, but it could be any number of other things too.

She might have been busy/left it charging/had it on silent etc.
 

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Just assume she never made it to the phone in time. Don't waste time trying to get inside everyone's head
 

tsmith2334

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ligyron said:
Just assume she never made it to the phone in time. Don't waste time trying to get inside everyone's head
True that's actually real good advice...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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