“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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*Disclaimer* I am either over-thinking this or just stupid.

So I knew this girl for a few months and we were being friends/flirty for a few months. I believe I had oneitis for her, but then I recently just decided to stop playing since I had better things to do and she would just front all the time about hanging out and going out. So I stopped answering her texts and she didn't talk to me anymore.

So around this time last month she texted me about hanging, but I was busy and didn't really care to answer. And then at the beginning of this month she texted me that she misses me. I didn't answer that either. And now today, she texted me an inside thing we have, probably knowing I would answer. And I did :/ My oneitis was back for a few minutes of talking to her.

Now my question is, does this girl like me or is she just bored and I've become her "when I'm bored text buddy"? She is 5 years older than me and always claims she "never texts first". But clearly she does, and to a younger dude at that.

So again, either Im overthinking and just being dumb, or all that time of not talking to her has made her actually miss me. Idk. I have no experience whatsoever with girls, dating, or pickup so I am here for some advice.

What do you guys recommend I do?

Thanks!!

JC

p.s. not sure if this belongs in the High School forum since I am 17? :nervous:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JohnnyCage said:
*Disclaimer* I am either over-thinking this or just stupid.

So I knew this girl for a few months and we were being friends/flirty for a few months. I believe I had oneitis for her, but then I recently just decided to stop playing since I had better things to do and she would just front all the time about hanging out and going out. So I stopped answering her texts and she didn't talk to me anymore.

So around this time last month she texted me about hanging, but I was busy and didn't really care to answer. And then at the beginning of this month she texted me that she misses me. I didn't answer that either. And now today, she texted me an inside thing we have, probably knowing I would answer. And I did :/ My oneitis was back for a few minutes of talking to her.

Now my question is, does this girl like me or is she just bored and I've become her "when I'm bored text buddy"? She is 5 years older than me and always claims she "never texts first". But clearly she does, and to a younger dude at that.

So again, either Im overthinking and just being dumb, or all that time of not talking to her has made her actually miss me. Idk. I have no experience whatsoever with girls, dating, or pickup so I am here for some advice.

What do you guys recommend I do?

Thanks!!

JC

p.s. not sure if this belongs in the High School forum since I am 17? :nervous:
. I'm Chris Hansen and this is date line NBC why don't you have a seat over here.
 

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But seriously I've known oldeer chicks that go for the youngins just tell her something about your gf not liking when you talk to her but you recently broke up get her drunk with what little money you have and prophet because she can buy you liquor
 

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Roumie said:
Just forget her. You say you went NC on her and she reciprocated. Why go no contact if you are going to end it now? I see this situation as the you pointed out.

If anything, just out her to hang out. If she agrees then good, if not, then forget her.
Yeah I thought a little bit and that's totally it. She's also a conniving ***** and now I know why a lot of the dudes I know who know who she is basically hate her. Thanks Roumie! I am going to proceed with NC from now on. :rockon:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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