"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What does this mean in "Male language"?

VashStampede

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What did she mean by:
"You should know that the last thing i want is a relationship."

Im guessing she is either playing hard to get or is just fed up with failed relationships which Im sure we all are!!!???
I doubt the last thing she would want is a relationship with a famous rock star, so what is she trying to say? She doesn't know me personally, so could this just be a defense that she can fall back on if she decides im not worthy? thanks
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DavenJuan

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for whatever reason she assumed or presumed either based on her past or based on something you said, that she needed to validate her intentions.

i dont like your response though. its as if you are qualifying yourself. even though your intentions were to simply say " stop jumping the gun", it also comes off as "maybe you will when you get to know me".
 

DonGorgon

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Translation: I am hoing around now and dont want any clingy dudes trying to stop me but you are cute enough to f, you don't have much time but if your game is smooth enough you can f me before i disappear ..
 
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Rollo Tomassi

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VashStampede said:
What did she mean by:
"You should know that the last thing i want is a relationship."
She just left out the last part of that sentence.

"You should know that the last thing i want is a relationship,..with you."

NEXT.

Move on.
 

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hmmm

fk

yeah I think you guys are right..

I wont contact her again. If she contacts me when she gets back, then I'll give it a shot in person cause this facebook sht destroys game.. If she doesn't then NEXT
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tick37

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Maybe she means what she's says about not want a relationship. That means you can have fun with her and date others, too. That's a plus. Or she may be trying to get you to want her more. That's what I tell women so they become more interested.

So, is this girl's brother a really good friend? If so, you might want to think about that. If anything goes wrong, he'll take his sister's side because a strong bond.
 

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FACEBOOK! Grah! stay away from that thing with new prospects!

It's ok to use it with a woman you've known a while and your friends. But it really can be a game killer. Not to say it can't be a hand tool, it very well can (it has for me at least) but MY preference is real life. Can't make eye contact through a screen.
 

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Rollo might be correct but so what. Why MUST you enter a relationship with her? Why can't you just be happy fvcking her and thats it? Isn't that what guys want anyways?
 
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