"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What does this mean in "Male language"?

VashStampede

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What did she mean by:
"You should know that the last thing i want is a relationship."

Im guessing she is either playing hard to get or is just fed up with failed relationships which Im sure we all are!!!???
I doubt the last thing she would want is a relationship with a famous rock star, so what is she trying to say? She doesn't know me personally, so could this just be a defense that she can fall back on if she decides im not worthy? thanks
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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for whatever reason she assumed or presumed either based on her past or based on something you said, that she needed to validate her intentions.

i dont like your response though. its as if you are qualifying yourself. even though your intentions were to simply say " stop jumping the gun", it also comes off as "maybe you will when you get to know me".
 

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Translation: I am hoing around now and dont want any clingy dudes trying to stop me but you are cute enough to f, you don't have much time but if your game is smooth enough you can f me before i disappear ..
 
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VashStampede said:
What did she mean by:
"You should know that the last thing i want is a relationship."
She just left out the last part of that sentence.

"You should know that the last thing i want is a relationship,..with you."

NEXT.

Move on.
 

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hmmm

fk

yeah I think you guys are right..

I wont contact her again. If she contacts me when she gets back, then I'll give it a shot in person cause this facebook sht destroys game.. If she doesn't then NEXT
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maybe she means what she's says about not want a relationship. That means you can have fun with her and date others, too. That's a plus. Or she may be trying to get you to want her more. That's what I tell women so they become more interested.

So, is this girl's brother a really good friend? If so, you might want to think about that. If anything goes wrong, he'll take his sister's side because a strong bond.
 

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FACEBOOK! Grah! stay away from that thing with new prospects!

It's ok to use it with a woman you've known a while and your friends. But it really can be a game killer. Not to say it can't be a hand tool, it very well can (it has for me at least) but MY preference is real life. Can't make eye contact through a screen.
 

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Rollo might be correct but so what. Why MUST you enter a relationship with her? Why can't you just be happy fvcking her and thats it? Isn't that what guys want anyways?
 
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