"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Robyn923b said:
I'm hanging out with her tomorrow. She doesn't text much back cause "she isn't a texter" she says, so I told her to call me and we'd go from there.

Am I pushing it by getting her to call me or am I showing value by not being easy?
You have a bad habit of worrying about nonsense.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mantis Toboggan said:
You have a bad habit of worrying about nonsense.
I do have that habit, and it's difficult to have fun with it. I just dunno if I should wait till she calls me or call her myself.
 
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