"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What does the High School Forum think of Nofap?

Fedex

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I would like to ask the fellow Don Juan in the high school forums on what you think of nofap?

I took up nofap a few months ago not being able to pass a week until recently when I managed to get past 7 days.

I tend to feel depressed in a way after relapsing and the feeling drags on up to 2-3 days. In the past I tend to don't realize this as I used watch Porn and Jerk off daily and when I stop It feels as if my life is horrible and I lose all my motivation to be productive and to improve myself and to pick up new skills to learn and to continue to work on.

The worst part is on my social capability, I can hardly ever carry on conversations and I don't know what to say when I try to strike up a conversation with a someone. The worst part is that I turn full-fledged beta in many situations and it's killing me. The funny part is when I hit day 4 or so, I feel like I can conquer anything and I feel fresh and manly one way or another.

There has been research done on the subject and it's proven that the dopamine receptors in our brain that stimulates reward and pleasure become less receptive and results in us becoming uninterested in things and becoming depressed and resulting us to be not motivated.

That is more or less my opinion. What does the high school board think of Nofap?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NSX-R

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im in day 10 and i feel like alpha,like i dont give a sh!t ,people around me seem like they have more respect at me,also i have more inspiration when i talk to girls(one even commented that i am a smooth talker), i feel more calm than i used to but there are some situations that i feel a lot of anger than usuall and also i dont know if this is good but i use more frequently bad words when i talk but overall i feel great.

but its hard to keep it because when i see a girl i have instant boner(except from the ugly ones)and also internet is full of temptations so everyday is a challenge with yourself

when im breaking it after 3 minutes i feel regret for breaking it,i feel awkward,weak,no energy to do nothing and also a lot of bad luck that lasts usually the first 3 days,at the 4 day everything go well and so on until i break it again

i support antifap and i hate that they promote it on the internet and people agree.

oh and sorry for my bad english
 

yungballa

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I feel like no fap has no benefits at all. I see no difference from when I'm beating my meat and when I take a break. I've been on no fap for about four months now. My goal is 9-10 months. I feel nothing's changed. To me, I feel as if no fap is a punishment of some sort. I feel like I'm depriving myself of my own sexual desires.

If you ask me, why break away from your sexual desires?

I feel the exact same, for me there is no "boost of confidence", none of that.
 

NSX-R

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Confidence is not something magical that comes automaticly when you stop fapping.
Ruler is right with that.Remind to yourself the things that you should be proud for and and nothing more.
If you feel like there is nothing special with you even the small things count like you have two good legs or you still have teeth or something similar because remember there are many people that dont have these things you find normal.

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything" - Fight Club

And as Master Pook is saying "as you think you shall become"

Stop thinking negative things and be positive and you will see your life be positive

weirdly these days people around me respected me more than they used to and people say to me that i have changed and all that thanks to this place.

Follow what people with experience say and you will be in your right way
 
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Blistex

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I think it depends on the person. There are stories here of people saying NoFap helped them, while others have said they have not felt any benefits. So, you have to try it out and see if it works for you. If not, keep doing what you are doing. There clearly is not a consensus on the subject yet.

Personally, I seem to feel more confident and my workouts improve by a lot (more stamina) when not fapping. But, I also noticed my standards seem to drop. An HB6 could be become an HB8, only because I am feeling more horny as a result of not fapping.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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