"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What does she want?

saturos

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There is this girl in the grade below me that i would be cool with hooking up with, and she's in one of my classes. She's relatively outgoing and chill, partially because she lives in a neighborhood stacked with guys from grades 8-12 that she has grown up with.

Anyways, we talk a fair amount and stuff, and then i found out she is the next door neighbor of one of my better friends, whose house i chill at alot.
She always tells me to "come over and say hi" if i go over to my friend's house. I was like, "oh cool" but now i'm a bit uncertain about how i would go about this (i'm at my friend's house...what the hell do i text her, and what would i do with my friend?) and i'm not sure if she is interested in me. Like, obviously, going over to actually just say hi would be stupid and awkward.

Maybe i'm just overthinking this, but i don't want to do something weird and lose interest.

Thanks.
 

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James18

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Ya, you're over thinking. She's into you, she racked her mind in the heat of the moment and said the first thing she could to try and tell you she's interested- come over and say hi.
Now, next time you're over at your friend's house, text her, or better still call her, and mention you're over there. Watch her jump on the opportunity and be prepared for a lame excuse as to why she wants you to come over. Then, by whatever means, meet up with her and do your thing- simple.
 
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