what does she want? what is she thinking?

[thewishmaster]

Hey guys.

I am in a real mess right now and need your expert advice.

I have been seeing a girl for like 2 months. we hung out like 7-8 times, things were going great. We were kissing, making out (but didn't sleep with her yet). She is an innocent kinda girl, not the *****y one (reason m telling you this coz I think maybe there is a different strategy to handle innocent girls ).
I am the guy who always say things that she wants to hear, buy her gifts, texting her everytime, always available, telling her how I fell, not at all mysterious (which I know is a big big big mistake after reading other posts)

I really want this friendship or whatever it is to develop into something more but one night I got a little emotional and told her what i really feel and said those deadly three words, I LOVE YOU.. (i know, you guys would be like what a retard.. i know .. i know.. but cant help now). She said that she is too afraid to go into a relationship coz of her past bad experiences.

She didn't text me the next day nor did I coz I was too embarased. I called her next to next day to make things clear.. and she was just crying and saying that she's too afraid and blah blah!!

I haven't talked to her much after that and almost ignored all her text messages the whole day and she was like.. are you mad?? did i do something wrong?? i am worried etc etc..

I almost told you my whole love story to you guys lol. So I don't know what she wants or what she's thinking.

its been like 3 days since that incident happened and I have not been talking to her much after that day but I definitely have feelings for her.

Am I doing it right by ignoring her a little?? Coz I don't want her to think that I lost interest in her coz she didn't say I love You back!!

HELP ME GUYS.. I REALLY NEED IT!
THANKS IN ADVANCE!

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

Either a troll or a guy that made every mistake in the book.

In case not a troll: read the DJ bible, hit on 100 other women, and then come back. You're clueless and need much help.

 

[thewishmaster]

You don't need to repeat it.. i know that i fvcked up!

Can you just give me some helpful advice.
Am I doing it right to ignore her ?

 

[Big Nuts]

Ignore, recalibrate how you act around women. Be aloof and indifferent around her next time but show subtly that u are interested....maybe a little touch (kino), smiley smirk...always maintain your frame.

No gifts, no poems, no gay sh!t....no I love you (first)

 

[dasein]

Forget about what she wants or what she's thinking, what do you want, what are you thinking? That should be to put your penis in this woman asap, if not that, then move on to one you want to do that with. Good relations between men and women are built on good sex and sexual tension, not lofty noble idealism of love and relationships. You are trying to serve her this giant frothy slice of dishonest idealistic "BS Love Pie" as a dessert before showing her the steak main course. She wants the -steak- not the pie. She's bawling because you won't give her her damn steak!

In your shoes, tell her someone put Ecstasy in your drink and you have said all kind of weird things to all kinds of folks lately, If she starts up with the "scaredy scaredy" talk, laugh and say "f-ck that, let's get out and have some fun." If she keeps up the wailing, walk on, if she agrees, take her out on an active date, walking around somewhere. No heavy talk whatsoever, no posturing, no game attempts (you aren't there yet). Just light fun flirty. Get a drink at the bar after walking around. Sit at the bar, not across a table, gauge her touching and response. Then cut it short and kiss her goodbye. Leave. Call in a few days and have another active date plan. Rinse repeat this with NO heavy talk whatsoever, and little contact between dates as long as she's saying yes and enthusiastic about escalating physical.

Eh, this is probably shot, good luck anyway.