"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What does "Meh" mean?

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Ok, guys, I gottta ask.

I see more and more men preceding their posts with this mysterious "meh" word, and I don't fully understand the meaning of it. Obviously I'm from an older generation, but this "meh" preamble seems kind of femminine to me. In other words, it has a subtle flavor of weakening the strength of a statement. If I'm missing the point of it please correct me.

Meh, I could be wrong in my impression of it, expecially since I'm not even sure what it means.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I use it in terms of: I don't care.

e.g

HAve you heard, lindsey is going out with....

Meh.
 

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ya i think i'd lean more towards "Whatever".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Meh.
 

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Can anyone tell me what "sarge" stands for?
 

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But "meh" definitely has feminine roots, it's sisters include "jk" and "lol".

I hate instant messaging and cell phones, they are retarding the king's english.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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im sure the OP has figured that out by the 10th post Einsteins.
 

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kingsam said:
google is wonderful! - searching "pua acronyms" gives you
http://www.fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtml

SARGE
The act of explicitly going out and picking up women using pick-up and seduction techniques.
I already knew that.

I'm asking what the letters stand for. And if they don't stand for anything in particular, why is it called a "sarge"? Just seems like an odd, random name to me.
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Julius_Seizeher said:
But "meh" definitely has feminine roots, it's sisters include "jk" and "lol".

I hate instant messaging and cell phones, they are retarding the king's english.
This post is truth.

"meh" means you've just handed your balls over to some woman, and you don't care.

When you text, your balls shrink too. Any online myspace lovin' is shrinkage as well.

Our information loving society is for women, and those women need our sacks to shrink to fit.
 
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