"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What does it take to take a girl's virginity?

Vice

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See, this girl I dated for about two weeks is a virgin, and I talked to her ex and he told me that she's not giving it up.

Now, I'm going to assume that he isn't as smooth as me (dosen't know how to properly seduce [neither do I, but I know enough to get her aroused] girls).

But besides that, what is the general guideline for landing virgins? I've made out with her a few times but I never really tried escalating from there.

I just need a bit of advice, like if I should keep persisting or just wait till she loses it.

And for the record, I don't want to have sex with her just because she's a virgin, I want to because she's a fine young lady ;]
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheSplat

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The best way to get a girl to lose it is to use a tactic not many people talk about in this forum. Love. Hate to sound sappy, but it would be best for both of you if you were in love before she were to give you that privilege.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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You just gotta make them feel comfortable about having sex with you. I really don't care for fvcking virgins. I like experienced girls so I can do whatever I want with them.
 

Leporello

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Well everyone should try it at least once. And then never again.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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