What does it really come down to when you are on the top of the game?

[verysuave]

u got mad dj skills, good looks, nice body, very charming, nice car, got your own place etc etc


what kinda persona would this person have around women? would this person even bother calling a chick twice to confirm a date to see if she's going to go or not?? does he next women if they flake for the first time? is this pretty much the FINAL end result?

can anyone here RELATE???????

 

[oakraiderz2]

Get a personality. Youre focusing on surface structures. You need to do something to figure out who YOU are.

Edit: If you have mad DJ skills, this question would be mundane.

 

[verysuave]

Get a personality. Youre focusing on surface structures. You need to do something to figure out who YOU are.

Edit: If you have mad DJ skills, this question would be mundane.

im always working to improve, but that is why i''m asking anyone who is at the top this QUESTION and no need to be a smart ass

 

[COD]

the ultimate status arrives when you can get a hot chics phone number and then throw it away instantly and not even let it phase you.

It comes from NO LONGER relying on ANY pickup line, routine, tactic, trick, boasting, bragging, new clothes, in shape, having money, new car, etc...YOU CAN ATTRACT WOMEN ALL BY YOUR PRESENSE.

Attaining true ultimate status really comes when you are able to teach/instruct others in an articulate manner and have them reach a level of success. While you are injecting your wisdome upon others you begin to see things you once did, obstackles you once encountered and may experience a more profound comprehension and appreciation of how predictable people truly are.

You will take notice of the "spill-over effect".....other parts of your life will be enhanced by this new found attainment. Your confidence level may assist you when dealing with problems at work, conversing with competition, landing a new position, getting a discount, etc. Congruency will be aligned and life will be so much more easier and a lot more fun.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Everyone is different...

The correct answer should be how you want to be based off your own interpretation. Everyone can be learning from the same sources but what makes them different is the way they interpret the things and the way they want to be...

Some guys will cut a chick off for flaking because they don't want to play games whearas I personally keep calling and meeting because I'm so busy that I have nothing to gain or lose...same with me not calling to confirm meetups...

What you were mentioning about is generally external things that have nothing to do with who you are and why your attracting women...you should generally be the same person in every situation.

 

[verysuave]

okay, basically, do you become NUMBto things/women is what i'm trying to say.

 

[COD]

NO...........no two women are alike, theres not a cookie cuter solution for every situation.

When you start out you gotta have a basic fundamental comprehension of how attraction works. As you progress (hopefully) your wisdom will increase and you will experience an "A-HA now I undestand" moment.

Ultimately people are creatures of certain habits and thus predicting probable outcomes requires a set of proactive default parameters. Basic action reaction laws come into play here. Its the creativity in conceptualizing innovative ways to create said results.

If say you wanted a chic to engage in a one night stand, one might seek out a target who shares that specific interest at that paticular moment. Knowing your targets motivation acts as a catalyst in assiting you to achieve your desired results. This DOES NOT mean said parameters are going to work on every single chic every single time. It depends on many variables, several of which YOU can control and even manipulate in your favor.

Being "NUMB" as you wrote may in fact back fire as you may not have effectively extracted the indicators of interest. I am not saying rely on or wait for IOI alone but give them their due interest.

There are several meothods of seducing women, some are in conflict with each other but all share a basic foundation. Its up to you to decide which paticular dicipline to incorporate into your life (which ones reap the most benefits).

There are pros and cons to each...I don't advocate combining bits and parts of all methods either as it will appear incongruent at best.

Mack tactics, m3 model, natural game, the art of approaching, the list goes on and on........its overwhelming at times.

MY STICKY POINT.......whew finally........there comes a time in every persons life where they have to choose where he/she wants to be in a certain time frame.

Ask yourself some questions........do you want short term fun, long term success, a life change, are women mere conquests, IS THIS ALL THERE IS, HOW will they view your life after you are gone. Adopting the "who cares" attitude does have repercussions down the road. The path you choose now can lay the foundation for success later on. You can follow the leader or LEAD THE CROWD, CARVING YOUR OWN DESTINY..........the choice lies within you.

nuff said........now go take what you learned and sarge some chics already!!!

 

[Effington]

It really just comes down to having confidence.

 

[WC2]

Get a personality. Youre focusing on surface structures. You need to do something to figure out who YOU are.

Edit: If you have mad DJ skills, this question would be mundane.

Aye. Cars, clothes, and money are not tools to attract women. Unless you want to be a 'tool'.

Ever see the show californication? If you haven't, then let me give you a little summary. The main character is a broken down writer. He doesn't really have a lot of money. He's an alcoholic. He drives a broke down old car. But he still pulls hot broads all the time.

Why? Personality. If you can vibe with a chick and make her laugh, there's nothing stopping you. All these 'tools' that guys think attract women always fall to a man who is glowing with personality and humor. He's not afraid to be himself around others.

Personally, I'm on my best game when I care the least. Whatever my mind processes that second, I say. Even if it's not always witty, people know that I'm not afraid to project myself to others no matter how taboo or ridiculous. You see what you get, and honestly you don't see that much anymore.

Thank god the majority of the men out there still hide behind their materialistic obsessions (clothing, cars, etc). It's these men who lose women to men like myself, who simply don't give a flying f*ck.

 

[verysuave]

lets stick back to the original question, i guess what im trying to say is, DO YOU FEEL NUMB about things? as in.... if u call her and she doesn't pick up, u NEXT her right away cuz u got options, that kind of thing...

 

[potato]

If you are on top of it, if you are the sh!t, women don’t flake on you, you don’t have to call them up to remind them that you have a date. You don’t even have to game them.

Numb? Numb from what?

 

[Single_Sucks]

I think I see what verysauve is trying to ask...

The mechanism of SuSuave.com is to construct a set of 'learned truths' about dating women and then to give people certain 'rules' by which to conduct themselves in a less AFC way.

Such is the argument of science, INDEED the world is unpredictable and ever- varying but in orer to make sense of it all we just havfe to make assumptions and generalisations. Without such RULES we'd never be able to make sense of it or realisticly use it to our advantage.

So if one assumes that the more extreme we take the sosuave rules then the more extreme the result with dating, and extend them thus, I can see that this would lead to where verysauve is describing.

Basically you end up with the guy who plays it ultimately cool, with literally no effort. I know a couple of skater bums who manage to have nice girlfriends like this. So maybe.