"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What does it mean when....
- Thread starter Cinamon
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
well I joined the forum after a really horrid date earlier on this year, and just wanted to get some insight from the guys perspective. I have stayed on the forums since because I value the advice and am becoming a better person for it. For example the guy I talk about in this thread, before joining I would have happily let him follow me until he got the message and walked away, but having read how this has impacted on guys jn different ways, I dud the mature thing and told him straight. So, what I am trying to say is me being in the forum guides me in becoming a better date for your English brothersJust a Shot Away said:
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Wow, Deus, is that you???Just a Shot Away said: