I took out this girl for our first encounter (as opposed to date, since at this point we're really just friends) last night; went to a hockey game, not because either of us like hockey but because we have a brand new arena that neither of us has seen and she was excited to check it out. I've been talking to her at school for a few months now and once in the past she mentioned her ex boyfriends in some passing comment. Yesterday though she must have mentioned past boyfriends four or five times.
Every time she did it was like she was making an effort to point something out to me that I'm just too dense to get. For example we were talking about Christmas trees since we'd both put ours up in the last week and commented that her last boyfriend and her used to exchange ornaments every year. Later during the game we bumped into a friend of hers and she said "X and I get together and mope because we both got dumped." We talked about work (she works in a clothing store) and she said her past boyfriends have always been bothered by how much she spends on clothes. There were a few others but you get the point.
Is she trying to point out that she's currently single and we can be more than friends? Was she testing how I'd react to her having been with other guys? Was she saying "I'm a popular girl, you're going to have to work for me"? I don't know how to interpret this. Thanks for helping a reforming AFC.
Every time she did it was like she was making an effort to point something out to me that I'm just too dense to get. For example we were talking about Christmas trees since we'd both put ours up in the last week and commented that her last boyfriend and her used to exchange ornaments every year. Later during the game we bumped into a friend of hers and she said "X and I get together and mope because we both got dumped." We talked about work (she works in a clothing store) and she said her past boyfriends have always been bothered by how much she spends on clothes. There were a few others but you get the point.
Is she trying to point out that she's currently single and we can be more than friends? Was she testing how I'd react to her having been with other guys? Was she saying "I'm a popular girl, you're going to have to work for me"? I don't know how to interpret this. Thanks for helping a reforming AFC.