Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What Does It Mean When MSN Says...

Being_the_Don

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What does it mean when MSN Instant Messenger says "You have been signed out of Windows Messenger because you signed in at another location" when you know that you haven't done anything of the sort? It happened to me twice today, one right after the other. The first time it happened I immediately signed myself back in. About 30 seconds later I received the above message again and had to log myself back into Windows messenger a second time. The same thing happened to me almost two weeks ago. What's up with that? :confused: Spyhack? Spybot doesn't show anything neither does McAfee. I wonder if someone has hacked my online password and ID.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Being_the_Don said:
What does it mean when MSN Instant Messenger says "You have been signed out of Windows Messenger because you signed in at another location" when you know that you haven't done anything of the sort? It happened to me twice today, one right after the other. The first time it happened I immediately signed myself back in. About 30 seconds later I received the above message again and had to log myself back into Windows messenger a second time. The same thing happened to me almost two weeks ago. What's up with that? :confused: Spyhack? Spybot doesn't show anything neither does McAfee. I wonder if someone has hacked my online password and ID.
It means your account has been signed in at another location. Probably someone hacked your account or knows your password.
 

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Could be hacking like others have said or most likely it is just one of many MSN messenger bugs.

If you have an Xbox 360 and Xbox Live though perhaps you are signed in on messenger through that and don't know it.

People who have Xbox 360 and Xbox Live can sign in to messenger by pressing the Y button when everything is turned on.
 

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I think this is the typical SS over reaction response. Realistically if someone hacked your account, they would likely change your pw on you. Everytime I've known someone to get their account hacked, the pw was changed so they couldn't access it.

What I think likely happened though is you clicked the remember my pw on another computer and when someone turned that computer on, it signed you in. All you need to do is change your pw and when that other computer tries to automatically sign you in, it won't be able to because the pw doesn't match anymore.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Log in right now and change your password to something secure, for example 10 character random combination of letters (small and upper case) and numbers. Write it down so you don't forget.

If it stops happening, somebody had broken into your account. Otherwise, its a glitch or as someone else said, you could be logging in somewhere you're not thinking of.
 

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Thanks to everyone. I had a suspicion that someone has hacked my computer. This is the only computer I use for Windows Messenger. A couple of weeks ago I was getting some hokey offline messages from a friend of mine with a link in it. I clicked the link but it only took me to advertising sites. I emailed my friend asking about it and was told that I she hadn't sent me anything. The same thing happened again a couple of days later on Yahoo IM (with a different buddy) and again on Windows Messenger again with the person from whom the first Windows Messenger offline was allegedly sent. When that time, I clicked a link which was to MSN photos or something like that, but the new window that I was directed to said that I was signed out of MSN because I had logged in at another location. I was told I had to sign in again. I didn't think much of it at that moment so I just signed in. And it was after THAT that I started having the current problem of MSN saying I signed in at another location.

Now I guess it means I need to contact all of my friends to tell them about a posssible keyboard hacker. :cuss: My suspicion is that one of my friends wa ssurfing, picked up a virus then passed it on. But why hasn't my anti spy ware and anti virus software detected anything?

Also, this might sound kinda silly but I don't know how to change my Windows Messenger password. :p
 

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I doubt anyone hacked your computer. I usually get those things and it's as what MacAvoy has said, if you have two computers you're probably still logged in your other computer. Even if you have one computer it still pops up for me, I believe it is just a small glitch.
 

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I'd bet dollars to donuts that someone didn't hack your computer. There is also MSN messenger and windows messenger. On your computer and if one signs in, it can boot you out of the other.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Being_the_Don

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MacAvoy said:
I'd bet dollars to donuts that someone didn't hack your computer. There is also MSN messenger and windows messenger. On your computer and if one signs in, it can boot you out of the other.

When I turn on my computer I get logged into Windows Messenger-at least that's what I'm seeing now. TBH I never really paid much attention to the difference between MSN messenger and Windows messenger. But I do have yahoo instant Messenger, too, although I don't use it as often. I'd like to think it's just a glitch but I can't take chances either so that's why I changed the password. Lately yahoo logs me out when I'm checking my email, I then have to type my password in again. None of this happened to me before a couple of weeks ago. What with all the phishing scams and identity theft so rampant I'd rather be safe than sorry.
 
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