Got a simple question for y'all. What does it mean when a girl says your mean. Like today, my friend was talking to this chick and I was beside him. He said something bout her switching classes, and I said yea shes in some of my classes. Then she said to my friend' " Yea, and hes so mean". (he being me) What does that mean? Thanks in advance.
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Sexy_Malibu
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Do you tease her? Do you ignore her? It depends on how she said it but if she said it kind of like part whiny/part flirty... moderate interest. But also moderate immaturity.
seloifter
Senior Don Juan
mean is always better than nice (assuming you want to get laid, anyway.... not if you want friends)......
girls will screw mean guys, but remain friends with the nice guys....
if she said you were mean but not a really serious way, then you can take that as a good sign.... she's flirtatious, and she's diggin how you tease her.....
girls will screw mean guys, but remain friends with the nice guys....
if she said you were mean but not a really serious way, then you can take that as a good sign.... she's flirtatious, and she's diggin how you tease her.....
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Sexy_Malibu
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I thought about this some more and I think if she had said "he's an *******" or "he's a ****" that would be bad. But she said "he's so mean" which is not bad.
Dont let it affect you and just keep doing wat ur doin by the way if she says this to your face just reply with well thats the way I am and if u dont like it then you can just leave I've tried this b4 and it works everytime they become submissive and even apologize
Well it sounds to me like it isn't that big of a deal. ya, she seems like she is just being slightly teased or whatever and she's just complaining. I get this too and it's really not that big of a deal.
but if she called you an ******* or a **** or whatever that would mean she has a problem with you. I know this seeing as i'm going through somthing similar to this right now.
but if she called you an ******* or a **** or whatever that would mean she has a problem with you. I know this seeing as i'm going through somthing similar to this right now.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
jus make your jokes or "insults" come off as sarcastic or not so serious.
if you can say it right you can say ANYTHING
if you can say it right you can say ANYTHING
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All of the girls I talk to say I'm mean. However it sounds so playful that I often take it as a compliment and that also means that the C+F you have done is working perfectly. If she says it in a really serious tone or calls you something worse, its time to lay off that and if you are trying to pursue her, you should probably move on.
downfallofdisbelief
Don Juan
Dude, if she isn't sayin your a **** than your perfectly fine. She recognizes your sense of humour. Use this to your advantage. She's talkin about you with her "friends" and it's not in a bad way either. (bad meaning calling you ugly, annoying, nice). Go get her number and go on a date. That's the only way you'll really know if she likes you. Don't mess around with gossip, go to the source!
Canadianpimpology
Senior Don Juan
My gf is always like..."ur so mean...ur lucky i love you alot!"
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don't mean nothing
dude she's interesed ,maybe
? learn 2 read and interpret bodylanguage. anyways u have the perfect opening line now("why do u think i'm mean"?) AND things in common(duh,same school,same classes,same teachers,)numberclose,wait 3-5 days b4 calling ,and get a date.
dude she's interesed ,maybe
? learn 2 read and interpret bodylanguage. anyways u have the perfect opening line now("why do u think i'm mean"?) AND things in common(duh,same school,same classes,same teachers,)numberclose,wait 3-5 days b4 calling ,and get a date.