queenstownrox
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What does it mean when a random girl starts dancing with you in a bar? Was walking through the crowd she looks at me and starts dancing but I keep walking.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What does it mean when a random girl starts dancing with you in a bar?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
hockeyfreak79
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She's signaling you....COME TALK TO ME! I get the same @ the Honky Tonk I go to but usually it's the larger chicks. They tend to have to be a little more aggressive to get some attention.queenstownrox said:
They throw out signals and when you get them just take action, it's your cue.
It happened last night, HB8 sitting with some older dude looking bored out of her skull. She was giving me and/or my buddy major signals. (Come talk to me!)
I said to my bud, that guy she is with has to be her Dad. Sure enough it was! Odd situation but still funny as hell, kind of wish I approached her earlier in the night... Ohwell
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SeymourCake
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When a woman moves her hips from side to side, it means she is signalling you and trying to turn you on.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
